Summary of a lecture on how to become a popular person.

The lecture began with a game. Everyone leaves their seats and feels the feelings between people in different relationships and interactions under the guidance of the teacher. The students participated seriously and the atmosphere was warm. With everyone's psychological experience, the lecture began to guide us to think about what kind of interpersonal relationship we need, harmony but not blind obedience, independence but not loneliness, sincere listening to ourselves and self-confidence that we will not be autistic. I talked about how to have confidence in life, how to build my own super popularity and have good and harmonious interpersonal relationships. The students all benefited a lot, and from time to time they burst into warm applause or knowing smiles. Then Ma's lecturer teaches you some tips to improve your popularity, such as praising others sincerely, listening attentively, saying "no" artistically and so on. After the demonstration of these skills, everyone practiced in laughter. With a smile and a reluctant mood, the lecture ended, and Mr. Ma's wonderful speech won unanimous praise from the students. After the lecture, many students stayed to consult with the teacher, which involved many puzzles and problems in communication and love. After careful analysis, the teacher enthusiastically gave answers and suggestions. It can be seen that students now have psychological needs, and interpersonal relationship is a hot spot where students are easily confused. In the future, we should carry out activities on this theme at multiple levels to help them. Maybe you are knowledgeable, maybe you are eloquent, maybe you are gentle, but just having these things doesn't necessarily make you a popular person. Because this society is a collection, you can only succeed if you communicate with others and become a popular person. Although the lecture was well received, there are still many shortcomings in the previous notice and publicity. The lectures established in the early stage were in a hurry, and the publicity preparations were not really perfect. Early notice, too dependent on the psychological information Committee of each class, was not widely publicized. There are still many shortcomings in the order of our lectures and the places where we should knock, such as being late and leaving early, which is extremely disrespectful to the lecturers. We didn't sign up enough, and the time of this lecture remains to be discussed. Everyone's enthusiasm and interest in the lecture on Friday night will not be very high. We will draw lessons from this lecture in order to do our work better in the future. Chongqing technology and business university Rong Zhi College Student Psychological Association