In the limited contact frequency, try to talk less nonsense and be more compassionate to appease his emotions. If a girl with a high relationship is suddenly broken up, it is difficult to accept this state of mutual coaxing. But think about it from another angle, in this process, you become the master of this relationship by coaxing each other. Therefore, it is more effective to change your way of thinking and communication.
2, the update of the circle of friends, must show their own changes.
After the two sides really break up, they can only let the other side see the changes after the breakup, show better value than before, regain their attraction and let him go back. Still similar to the example of memorizing words, people are more likely to remember recent events. And if these beneficial things happen repeatedly and are transmitted to his field of vision repeatedly, it will give him a new understanding.
Don't make too many compromises, let alone stick to your own correctness.
We need a relaxed plan and adopt different coping styles according to each other's different psychological States, so as to gain the upper hand in this emotional contest. Only by maintaining a good attitude can we get twice the result with half the effort.
4. In the process of recovery, we should also enhance our own value.
Saving is not only to save each other, but also to let your own value be reflected in this relationship. The circle of friends can just praise and not talk, creating a cold attitude that I have seen. At the same time, the circle of friends shows the illusion that some people are pursuing and deliberately releases some clues to stimulate his desire to explore.
Precautionary measures of reservation
Every contact is a strong stimulus to the other party, which makes the last old feelings of the other party disappear faster, and it is not worth the loss. At this time, re-examining your identity is conducive to making the status quo more reasonable and gradually eliminating the dissatisfaction in the other person's heart, so that the other person is more likely to enter the natural state when talking to you and will not become too excited.
Losing love is really painful, but it is a good growth opportunity in your life compared with being surrounded by love in the process of falling in love. It is really hard for us to find a lover who really loves each other and sincerely hopes to experience all kinds of difficulties together until we get old.