Everyone's answer is no, of course. The ancients all know that "gold is not enough, and no one is perfect". How can there be perfect things in this world?
So do people. There are no absolutely perfect people in this world, only those who constantly improve themselves and pursue perfection. Everyone has shortcomings and makes mistakes.
However, sometimes because of the distance, we lack a comprehensive understanding of a person, only seeing his aura and ignoring his shortcomings.
Jobs was so great that he changed the world. But few people know that he has a particularly bad temper and doesn't like taking a bath.
Let's talk about Mr. Zhou. Mr. Zhou is indifferent to fame and fortune, compassionate, and integrates practice into writing. For the purpose of altruism, he wrote profound life wisdom in plain language.
In the eyes of many iron fans, Mr. Zhou is definitely a "living Buddha" with wisdom and compassion. He works tirelessly in the group every day, finding faults and correcting mistakes for each of our articles, without expecting any return.
Such a teacher Zhou can be said to have left us a perfect image close to a saint.
However, such a teacher Zhou, who is close to the realm of saints, said that he himself is a normal person in life. He also has secular desires, joys and sorrows, negative emotions and dark side.
I really felt the mood of Teacher Zhou recently.
He felt that the group of more than 200 people was too cold and cheerless, so he acted alone. He felt that many people in the group followed him to learn writing, but little progress was made. All these made him extremely disappointed. In a rage, he dissolved the original free group and changed it into a charging group.
Of course, we all understand Mr. Zhou very well, and the teacher is also out of helplessness. In such an extreme way, those who don't know how to cherish are eliminated and those who really want to stay are left behind.
Compared with the teacher's help and wisdom, the annual fee of 100 yuan is really just a means to identify true and false fans.
In the new group, although there are fewer people, the atmosphere is extremely active, and everyone speaks enthusiastically and expresses their opinions. Teacher Zhou was very happy at first and encouraged everyone to talk more.
But then he found that he talked too much, so let everyone focus on commenting on the article, or move out of the group. Seeing Mr. Zhou's recent mood swings, I realized that the almost perfect person in my mind is actually an ordinary person with emotions.
Therefore, imperfection is normal. We can be imperfect, but we must have the courage to admit our shortcomings, accept our imperfections, be loyal to our hearts and live our true selves.
At this point, Mr. Zhou did a very good job. He often tells everyone that he is a very ordinary person, so let everyone not sanctify themselves too much. Even in the article, I publicly wrote that I was unattractive, thin, and had serious anxiety and neurasthenia.
Sometimes the same person, in the eyes of familiar people, is full of shortcomings and useless, but in the eyes of others, it looks radiant and perfect. Therefore, perfection is related to distance, and keeping a proper distance can produce a good feeling.
The mother looks at her young children, which is lovely in every way. People in love, seeing each other are full of advantages, so there is a saying that "beauty is in the eye of the lover".
So, is there a perfect person in this world? If there is, it only exists in our eyes.