Yun Jie's family lives in a community with a living area of about 70 square meters. After the second child was born, the boss had no place to sleep. Sister Yun arranged the boss in the master bedroom balcony. Although the space is isolated, it is really not suitable for children to live in the old residential area in the north, and it is hot in Leng Xia in winter. However, under the pressure of housing prices, Sister Yun can only afford to buy a house in this way.
When chatting, Sister Yun said that because she and her husband like children very much, they decided to keep this child when the second child came unexpectedly. After the birth of the child, the father's burden became heavier. In addition to completing the formal work, he also found a temporary job. I want to bring a better living environment to my children.
After another friend, Xiao Xia, gave birth to a second child, the eldest of the family said to his father, "Dad, I don't want a younger brother. Please change my sister. " My brother tried to rob my toy. "The first reaction of a 4-year-old child is whether he will rob my toys, but for adults, one more child means one more responsibility.
In the past, when Xiao Xia 1 was less attached to her, she would always go shopping and get together with her friends. Now I can only go back to take care of two children. Xiao Xia told me that it is difficult to change jobs now. No overtime, close to home. There are few job opportunities.
Double the pressure and double the happiness. Sasha's eldest daughter took special care of her mother during her pregnancy. Help build a crib, and now I still hold my little sister every day. Sasha was filled with joy. The eldest daughter seems to have grown up at once after having this little sister.
In a family with two children, the economic pressure doubles, the parents' investment doubles and their happiness doubles.