Every night after work, I will go to the Japanese sushi restaurant on Nanjing West Road for dinner alone. It takes about 15 minutes to walk from Beijing West Road to Nanjing West Road.
At the sushi restaurant around 7: 00 pm, the lights are bright, and screams of burning ears come from time to time. A clean man in a blue shirt and a white apron poked his head out from the long curtain hanging down, holding a sushi in his hand.
Outside the big glass window is Nanjing West Road. The night is thick and the traffic is intertwined.
There are slightly fluffy rice, salmon and orange sashimi, lettuce salad, miso soup and steamed eggs.
City life, intense work, for a woman, going home to cook a meal for herself, lost all the warmth. Eating a clean dinner with reasonable nutrition in a clean shop with moderate air conditioning feels like taking care of yourself. Both body and mind have been freed and relaxed.
I often see a woman eating dinner alone. There is an empty space between us with her big handbag. Her dinner content is very simple, a dish of fish roe sushi, a dish of fried mushrooms, sashimi and a glass of sake.
She sat there quietly and leisurely, eating slowly and leisurely. Sometimes I look at the bright lights outside the window with my head sideways. It's quiet, as if I'm thinking about something.
This is a woman about 30 years old, not very beautiful. But it smells clean and calm. Wear a Chinese blue printed coat with simple short hair and good skin. Wearing elegant little diamond earrings on her ears and no rings on her fingers.
I can intuitively judge all kinds of strangers I see, through her eyes, tastes and details. So I believe that she should be a capable person in a large organization, single, with a good economic foundation and strong independence. Freedom.
The fingers of her hand holding chopsticks reveal a lonely and elegant atmosphere, and a green jade bracelet gently slips from her slim wrist. Is a woman with a story, intriguing.
I've always seen women who can't wait to put on makeup when they are 30.
Behind the counters of middle and lower shopping malls, on the muddy ground of farmers' markets, in crowded buses. On the face with inferior cosmetics, there will be abrupt bright red lipstick and pale thick powder piled up together.
The embarrassment of trying to stay for fear of the passing of youth makes people sad.
Moreover, they are usually grumpy, and a little man who suffers can be crushed by hatred and cursing. Because of poverty, personality becomes selfish and greedy. The former beauty and bright mood are gone forever. The whole person is completely overwhelmed by life, family, children and husband. There is no turning over, no escape.
Maybe women will lose their sense of security when they reach the age of 30. If you lack self-confidence, if you are not independent and smart, you will have a hard time.
Unmarried people will be eager to find long-term meal tickets, because they are unable to work hard in society and open up valuable prospects, fearing being eliminated and having problems with food and clothing. Men are becoming more and more critical and selfish. They are not interested in supporting a useless woman unless she is beautiful. Love becomes no
If you have children, women often throw themselves away, and the whole person is handed over, fat and sloppy, and don't care.
When I found that the man around me began to turn his attention to the door, he let out a cry and couldn't control himself. Women's hysteria is often due to lack of self-confidence.
Because her spiritual support is built on others.
And I believe that when city life is cruel, the sky propped up by myself is the clearest. Just like those women who are at the forefront of social trends, they will become more and more beautiful, and the smell released will be more pleasant as they get older.
I like a woman who is still calm at the age of 30.
I like that they have their own jobs, are smart and decisive, and create value for society.
I like that they choose simple clothes and use imported cosmetics.
I like that they are more and more calm because of the tempering and ups and downs of life.
I like that they don't depend on men, but they appreciate men's taste.
I like that they live for themselves, know how to cherish their feelings and care about their health.
I like that they know how to pay, are full of tenderness, and keep their distance from their feelings calmly.
I like that they enjoy being alone.
I like their maturity.
I told my friend that day that the most beautiful period of a woman is two periods. 15- 17 years old, with mellow and sweet buds.
Then when I was nearly 30 years old, because I had experienced many things, there was a secret between my eyes and my eyes that no one knew. People are as pale as chrysanthemums, and even more unruly.
But the premise is that she is a woman who knows how to enjoy life and work. Her money is not given by men, so she won't dress herself up and change for anyone. She can arrange herself, control herself and dominate herself.
This is the best way for a woman to love herself.
So, please start today:
On the one hand, I satisfy myself materially, and occasionally buy some good things to treat myself, on the one hand, I balance my mind, on the other hand, I remind myself of my love.
Second, learn to take care of yourself: diet, sleep, fitness and maintenance-develop good living habits.
Keep learning and growing-you have a lot to learn: financial quotient, work ability, social knowledge, comprehensive information, emotional management, interpersonal relationship management and time management. . . Invest your spare time in valuable things in a planned way.
Love yourself unconditionally, from the outside to the inside.