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Liu Feifei's husband, born in a family, has a poor economic situation. He comes from the countryside and has a sister who is five years older than him. However, he lived up to expectations. A mountain girl, with her own efforts and cleverness, finally got into graduate school, got to know Liu Feifei and had a happy family. Liu Feifei is attracted by her husband's diligence and hard work, but his husband often says, "If it weren't for my sister, I wouldn't be here today."
It turns out that his sister did well in school at first, but her family was poor. She gave up the opportunity to continue studying, but left it to her brother. After graduating from junior high school, she dropped out of school and went to work in other places. She only gave herself some basic living expenses for one month, and all the other money was given to her brother, so that he could study at ease.
It is because of his sister's financial support that he can study carefree. He also lived up to expectations until he graduated from graduate school. Now I have a monthly salary of 20 thousand, a car and a house, and a happy family. He always wants to repay his sister and let her enjoy happiness. However, my sister has always declined politely. She thinks that her brother's happy life is the best reward for herself.
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Just as my brother's life was getting better and better, my sister fell ill. She has advanced gastric cancer and needs surgery, and may need chemotherapy later. My brother has just bought a house for a few years, and there is basically no savings at home. But if he doesn't do it himself, nobody can save his sister. She is still unmarried and her parents have no money. She can only rely on her brother.
When the younger brother learned that his sister was ill, he immediately discussed with his wife and sold his new car. The wife agreed, but the money was only enough for an early operation. The husband said to Liu Feifei, "I want to sell my house and save my sister." The wife was silent for a long time. She knew that her husband's request was not too much. If he chooses not to save, she will feel chilling. But if she sells the house, how can she live in the future?
Liu Feifei hesitated. She wants to persuade her husband, but she also knows that she can't persuade her husband, who has contacted the intermediary. Finally, after thinking about it for several nights, she made up her mind to say such a thing to her husband.
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Liu Feifei said to her husband, "I understand your feelings and behavior. If I were you, I would not hesitate to save my sister. So, when you sold the car, I didn't hesitate. I am on your side. This is not only what you should do, but also what I should do. But you want to sell the house, I hesitate, I'm afraid. Because you sold the house, our family is basically ruined.
You also know the current house price. Now the school district has reached 5 1000 square meters, and our salary adds up to about 30 thousand. If you sell the house, how can you live in the future? We two rural-born people want to buy a school district house, at least decades later. You can afford it, but I can't! My children can't wait! Besides, if you said something unpleasant, you heard what the doctor said. If you want to completely cure the disease, the possibility is slim. If you don't look good in the later stage, it will be a bottomless pit. No matter how much you spend, it's useless.
So if you want to sell the house, I really can't live with you. I won't advise you not to sell the house, but I have my own ideas. I can understand your feelings with your sister, but I don't have that deep feelings with your sister! I don't need to sacrifice my whole life's happiness for her. Forgive my selfishness. Let's break up. You paid most of the money for this house, and you also paid the loan. After the divorce, the house was given to you. If I don't want it, I'll save my sister for you. "
Conclusion: It is normal for others to be selfish. We are not saints, and we can't be noble enough to sacrifice the happiness of our lives to fulfill others. We can't kidnap others morally and ask others to do this and that from the moral high ground. Just like Liu Feifei and her sister-in-law, they are just relatives, and they don't have much affection. In order to save her, her husband would rather sell the house at the expense of his family, which is unfair to Liu Feifei. Liu Feifei also made his own choice, choosing divorce, giving up the house, being worthy of her husband and marriage. Liu Feifei said to her husband, in fact, it is not wrong, woman, how long can you wait? Isn't it unfair that children have to wait for decades to get their own house? So although she understands her husband, she can't sacrifice so much with her husband. She also has her own right to pursue happiness.