1. You should use your head when giving and returning help. Don't hurt people's face by giving favors, but return them quietly.<
1. You should use your head when giving and returning help. Don't hurt people's face by giving favors, but return them quietly.
2, don't lie, lie, but also round, very tired. Don't say what you don't want to say, but don't lie.
Don't care what a person who has nothing to do with your life says about you. They are not responsible for your life, but you are responsible for yourself.
4, see through, do not break, know the world well.
5. When you are most angry, hold back the words that hurt each other the most.
6. When others are talking, listen carefully and don't interrupt others; When you speak for yourself, speak slowly and don't worry.
7. I've heard too much gossip from others, so it's best not to spread it again.
8. To make enemies, it is better to make friends; If you want to make friends, please let your friends beat you. Jealousy often comes from acquaintances, so if you succeed, try to keep a low profile to acquaintances and even relatives.
9. Others can laugh at themselves, but you must not agree.
10, often saying "thank you" and "sorry" can solve many troubles.
1 1. When others spit on you, pour out their feelings and share their lives, smile and nod, "Mm-hmm". Pay attention to adjust your expression according to the tone and content of others. If the other person forgets the words or gets stuck, try to help him make them up.
12, don't talk about your private affairs everywhere, people don't like it or care.
13, politeness is not superfluous at any time. Sometimes people will say: Oh, don't be so polite. No, it's not polite, it's polite, no matter how close or far away, we must stick to it.
14, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. Some jokes are not allowed. You should treat them as jokes, but others will take them seriously. For example, making fun of other people's shortcomings and making fun of other people's families.
15. Use "Did I make myself clear?" Instead of "Do you understand?" .
16, don't speak ill of others behind their backs, and don't speak well of others to their faces. Good things can be said behind your back, and right and wrong can be discussed privately in person. When you feel that a person is doing something wrong or bad, you can tell him face to face and give him enough respect and room for thinking. So that others will appreciate you.
17, convenience for others is convenience for yourself. For example, if someone pushes a stroller into the door, we will open the door and stand aside to let others pass first.
18. Once you realize that this relationship is eating you up, terminate it immediately. No matter how many good memories this relationship has had, no matter whether you are trying to improve it or not, stop first, let yourself return to a peaceful state, protect yourself first, and talk about it later.
19, no matter how good the relationship is, some nicknames between boys can't be imitated by girls. Similarly, the reverse is also true. So the best way is to call your name.
20. When others ask for your advice, don't always say "whatever" or "whatever", which will make people feel that you have no opinion. Over time, people will ignore your thoughts.
2 1. Know how to hide others. If your friend is wrong and you happen to know it well, don't correct it in public. Don't be a good teacher. If the other person is right, praise him.
22. When a person is in a rage, don't argue with him, but learn to listen and listen to his feelings and needs. Sometimes he just wants someone to understand him.
23. When unreasonable people are dirty, we can let them go. That not everyone is as educated as we are.
24. Don't tell anyone who you like, who you don't like and who you have problems with. It is estimated that as soon as you finish speaking, the other party will know the next second.
25. Don't cross your legs when you speak, put your hands across your chest and back against the stool, which will make people feel distant and look down on others.
26. Popular people are generally lively, cheerful, versatile and stand out in the crowd. You can be popular instead of having to please everyone.
27. Don't try to trade your secret for a friend, and don't tell the secret to the wind, which will blow all over the forest.
28. Decisively refuse what you don't want to do, no matter who the other person is, no matter how good it looks. If you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it. If you feel wrong, you have to refuse. In addition, it turns out that most of the time my feelings are right.
29. There are very few people who are really kind to us in this world. Don't reveal your private affairs to people around you at will.
30. A proper temper can let people know where your bottom line is.
3 1, secular comparison is very skillful. Whether you can really do it depends on your strength. There are more excellent people than you, and you must have a good attitude. You should be thankful for the opportunity to learn from each other's strengths and never give up your efforts. If you just lose in words, you have to admit that others brag better than you.
32. Don't be nice to everyone. Give priority to people close to you. Not nonsense. Before that, I always gave up myself for others, being good to strangers and not good to people around me. Yes, I used to be so stupid!
33. Learn to affirm and praise. This is not flattering you, but polishing your eyes and seeing the bright spots of others. No one doesn't like being affirmed and recognized.
34. A group of people together, on the one hand, need to open themselves and try to be free; On the other hand, don't pretend, talk less about topics you are not good at, and learn more about topics you are good at.
35. Try your best to help your friends when they are in trouble, and stay away from them when they are proud.
No matter how angry you are, don't take it out on others. Nobody owes you anything. Anger will only consume each other's feelings.
37. I am strong and can establish new interpersonal relationships at any time; I am weak and can only rely on existing interpersonal relationships. Of course, I must try to be strong.
38. It is impolite for a group of people to get together, even if there are only four or five people, not to talk to another person in public about things that only two people know. This is a sign of low emotional intelligence.
39. Don't promise others at will, even if it is a small thing. Only if you can do it, will you consider agreeing.
40. You must say thank you when you borrow something, because the borrower may not be happy, but the borrower will be happier when you say thank you.
4 1, don't pour your feelings into the only one person, for friends, for lovers and for children.
42. Few people really don't like to talk. He probably just doesn't want to talk to you. For example, I was glib outside, but I didn't say a word in front of some people, which made them think I was introverted and clumsy. Chatting with people with low vision and narrow vision for minutes vomiting blood, stupid and stubborn, can only be right.
43. The old saying "It is dark near Zhu Zhechi" is not unreasonable.
44. Sometimes excessive empathy will make others think you are easy to bully.
45. Before pointing out each other's shortcomings, affirm each other.
46. If someone sends you a message, you must reply. Even if you don't want to talk, tell him that it's not cold not to reply to the news, because it involves basic education.
47. If you borrow something from others, you should return it in time, and you'd better attach a small cheap gift.
48. Don't say things you shouldn't say in front of others.
49. Pay attention to what the other person is telling you, blend in a humorous and sharing atmosphere, and avoid a complaining and critical environment.
50. It's best to put away your proud knowledge and don't preach to others. No matter how correct you are, your feelings are not the same, and the other party can't accept it. Because you say so, others may think that you treat him like a fool and think that others don't understand! It is foolish to be too outspoken and sometimes dishonest.
5 1, have dinner with the same sex and take the initiative to pay the bill. If someone pays first, call someone immediately. Take advantage of other people's discounts to actively pay more (such as using other people's vouchers, spelling orders, helping with purchasing, etc.). ).
52. Walking alone does not mean being unsociable, nor does it mean being lonely.
53. Don't go to your superiors in the middle of the night. Just because you work overtime doesn't mean that your superiors are still working overtime.
54, reciprocity, going out for dinner, etc. Don't let others pay the bill every time.
55. If you can help what you can, there will be no loss. When you need help, others will help you
56. No matter who the other person is, don't cross the boundaries of interpersonal communication. Best friends, lovers and relatives.
57. Less interference between husband and wife. If there is any contradiction, I will come to you to complain after the quarrel. Don't be silly and seriously blame his (her) partner. I meant what I said the other day. The next day, they made up and accused you together, and you knew you were wrong.
58, don't compete in a relationship, win or lose, who wins or loses.
At the end, I wish you all: May all good things bring you happiness, comfort and peace, and may all good things belong to you! 1. Don't get along too fast. Don't make shallow remarks, remember that if you talk too much, you will lose.
2. Speak with a ruler and play with a degree of abuse. A lot of things come out of the mouth.
3. Be kind to others.
4. Know how to keep a proper distance. Don't completely expose yourself, let both sides have some independent space. Family, friends and lovers are like this.
5. Pay attention to distinguish between acquaintances and friends.
6. It is useless to be kind to others without strength. Others don't care how much you pay, but how much you can get.
7. Don't talk hard and don't do soft things.
8. Never try to win others' sympathy, because sympathy itself has a trace of contempt. -Haruki Murakami
9. Pay attention to what you say and learn to deal with different types of people. You can't just look at people's skin, but also look under it. Don't look at what they look like, look at what they say, and then look at what they do, so as to infer what they want and want to do.
10. Thank you for your lowest cost. Take out more grateful red hearts and bask in the sun. Thank others more, the simplest and most practical, gratitude can make both hair happy.
1 1. Shut up and keep your heart.
12. If you encounter any contradiction, please focus on things, not people.
13. Never point to someone who can understand you.
14. Group activities, either pretending to be happy to participate or pretending to be painful to refuse.
15. Try not to deal with people with slow minds. If you have to deal with them, please be sure to keep 200% awake.
16. Never say that you have high emotional intelligence or that you can be a person. People who say such things often pay the price in the end.
17. If someone invites you to dinner for no reason, you'd better refuse. If you can't refuse, please remember to invite you later, because there is no such thing as a free lunch and no one will invite you to dinner for no reason.
18. People who don't know how to be modest often don't know how to be a man. Never mind, you won't lose too much weight when you listen to people bragging.
19. The truth is incomplete and the lies are incomplete. -Ji Xianlin
20. If you don't think so, you say "I never thought you were short" to your other half, but it shows that you really don't think he is tall enough. -Liu Yong
Letting life drift with the flow is an ability and a kind of luck. The so-called road is your innermost desire that is not driven by utility. It can take you as far as it can.
Bonnie
First, old people can't joke with their daughters-in-law.
Second, old people should not crowd buses during rush hours.
Third, employees should not pinch their arms in front of the boss.
Fourth, you can't turn vegetables with chopsticks when eating.
Fifth, you must do what you promised others.
Sixth, when you visit a friend's city, you must stay in a hotel, and friends should not entertain you more than three times.
Seventh, go to friends and relatives' homes and don't go into girls' rooms.
Eighth, you can't sit in the office led by your colleagues and leave if you have something to say.
Ninth, don't borrow money or cars from friends and relatives.
Tenth, take good care of your bear in public.
Eleventh, when there are elders or leaders eating, you can't sit down first.
Twelfth, no matter what occasion, no matter whether the boss is right or not, never talk back to the boss.
Thirteenth, when eating, people with high status or seniority don't move chopsticks, and others can't move chopsticks.
Fourteenth, when the leader or boss pours wine for you, hold the cup with both hands.
Fifth, don't ballroom dance with the opposite sex outside marriage.
Sixteenth, don't make friends with people who are biased against you.
Seventeenth, don't trust anyone.
Eighteenth, remember that there is no eternal friendship, only eternal interests.
Nineteenth, relying on no one is better than relying on yourself.
Twentieth, the tone must be less than the intensity.
Twenty-first, don't drink with colleagues with high blood pressure.
Twenty-second, don't carpool with colleagues of the opposite sex for many years.
Twenty-third, don't send friends in the dead of night.
Twenty-fourth, people who are free at ordinary times should not crowd the scenic spots on holidays.
Twenty-fifth, don't send information unrelated to work in the work group.
Twenty-sixth, don't leave the rice in the bowl to eat.
Twenty-seventh, don't ask the children of old friends you haven't seen for years about getting married and having children at the party.