How to educate children not to get stuck, and how to enlighten children who love to get stuck.

1, guide children to change their way of thinking. Sometimes the final result of the same thing is completely different, which depends entirely on our way of thinking. When children encounter bottlenecks, parents should be good at helping children change their way of thinking and let them change their ideas and find better ways.

2. Give children a second choice. When children are obsessed with their own ideas, parents can appropriately suggest a second solution to their children and give them one more choice. When children find that there is another solution to the same problem, their stubborn ideas will be shaken, and when children find that another solution is more favorable, their stubbornness will be improved.

It is very important to learn to be flexible. A large part of the reason why children are stubborn is that they cannot be flexible. They think there can only be one solution to one thing. When this road is blocked, children will become overwhelmed and disheartened.

What parents should do is to be a guide for their children. When they find obstacles in front of their children, they should guide them to adapt in time, broaden their horizons and let them find a more suitable road to success.

4. Communicate with children patiently. When parents are too impatient to improve their stubbornness, children will be more inclined to stick to their own ideas. Among them, rebellious psychology and self-awareness have great influence. Parents need to master certain communication skills, communicate patiently with their children, and let them gradually open their hearts.