0 1, learn to spend money on yourself.
Do you know what is the biggest similarity between men and women? Women are willing to spend money for themselves, and men are willing to spend money for her.
But this is also the biggest difference between men and women!
Girls spend a lot of money, but they all spend it on themselves. They will dress up beautifully and live a happy life. They have been investing in themselves, so girls always maintain a strong attraction. And many men always spend money on themselves, and spend it lavishly on women.
You are reluctant to buy yourself a suit, but you are willing to buy her cosmetics, but you are reluctant to go to the gym, but you are willing to give generously when she signs up for a yoga class. You pass on these substances that could have enhanced your own value to a woman to enhance her value. The result is that the value of the woman you lick is getting higher and higher, your value is getting lower and lower, and finally the woman looks down on you. This is normal.
If you are too hard on yourself and don't invest in yourself, you will never have a chance to make progress. If a person doesn't even love himself, it's a bit extravagant to expect others to love you. Only by enriching and strengthening yourself first is the only secret to maintain competitiveness.
Investing money in yourself, in the short term, is to buy a nice dress, make a better hairstyle, modify your appearance, enhance your image and external temperament, and change yourself. In the long run, spending money to train skills and improve your diploma will give you more room for progress in your work and career. When you pile up your own value, you will naturally become more attractive to women.
02. Humble can't please girls.
Women have a strong mentality. If a man has two conditions in front of her, but a man with humble attitude and generous self-confidence, she will never consider the man with humble attitude.
A humble man is always careful and polite to her. This kind of self-restraint will make him dull and boring, even if he has humorous cells, he will be suppressed. Therefore, women can not only meet their emotional needs from this man, but also can not meet hatahbn.
Begging, Wang's basic happiness is also felt.
Unfortunately, in reality, there are always many boys who like to pursue girls in a low-key way, and they behave very lowly, like pets, and they can come and go at will.
Although girls really like to keep pets, you should know that their feelings for pets are more like caring and loving their children, which is a relationship between superiors and subordinates. But what is a man's role? Is a partner, the relationship between partners is equal. What's more, a woman will never be interested in treating a person of the opposite sex who is almost the same age or even much older as a pet (if it is a brother-sister relationship, forget it). If a man deliberately belittles himself and flatters others, it is out of your role and runs counter to the needs of women.
03. Don't chase a girl unless you really like her.
If you only touch a girl in a coquettish manner when you are pursuing her, you will doubt the significance of doing these things from time to time and bleed for the money you spend.
It's not that you seriously like a girl and force her to pursue it. You not only lack motivation in action, but also lack overall planning. When you do things, you often think of this and that. For example, if I want to play with her today, I will stubbornly ask someone out to watch a movie together. After watching the movie, I felt bored and ignored her for the next few days.
A woman is very smart. Every move you make with her can tell whether you are sincere or not. If she finds out that you are just joking, she may pull away, or pretend to like you, play with you to the end and hurt each other together.
On the other hand, even if you do get her, you will have the same feelings as this girl. Being together will bring you more fatigue and pain, and there is no fun at all. In this state, your's relationship will certainly not last long, and it won't be long before she will choose to kick her away. If this happens more often, love rat's name will come to your mind unconsciously. Once this reputation spreads, no girl dares to touch you again.
So, if you are not sure that your feelings for a girl are serious, don't try to pursue others. Think about it, going out in hot and cold weather with a girl you don't like is like playing role-playing. Why bother? Isn't it more comfortable to play games and watch TV at home? Wouldn't it be more wonderful to use the money spent on dating to build yourself?