People, too, want to be better, we must learn, accumulate and polish.
A person's success is never achieved overnight.
The best way to polish yourself is to keep good times, endure leisure and stand up to adversity.
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Timely but not arrogant
Mr. Fu Lei once said: "A person is too smooth, and it is easy to get carried away unconsciously."
I'm impressed.
A person who is in prosperity will often get praise and some envious eyes from people around him, and it is easy to get carried away.
Many times, I feel that I am very powerful, and it is enough to live a good life without hard work.
However, when one day, the good luck runs out, only to find that I am too carried away, and finally I will suffer.
In history, we relaxed our vigilance when we succeeded, enjoyed ourselves when we were in prosperity, and there were countless examples of failure in the end.
Li Longji, Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, made great efforts in his early years and created a prosperous new century.
"Rice is fat and white, and public and private warehouses are rich." But later, they were complacent, didn't think about future troubles, "played with eyes and ears, and had poor vocal skills", and indulged in pleasure, resulting in the Anshi rebellion.
Introspection in the Tang Dynasty: "Xuanzong politics should be treated first and then chaotic. Why not?" This is an eternal warning.
After the Tang Dynasty, he lived in Li. When he was young, he inherited his stepfather's ambition and fought in the south and the north.
"Yan and his son group, the first letter of Liang Junchen", deserves to be called "a wonderful son under the cloud account". Later generations commented that "there was no one in five generations".
However, when his career just started, he was "lucky to get a day's peace, but he was afraid of debauchery ... and he didn't know that the country was in danger of collapse". As a result, he "destroyed the country and wiped out the species, laughing at the world."
Therefore, the more prosperous the place, the more sober it is.
Stay awake, in addition to self-discipline, but also stay away from useless circles.
Many people say that many friends walk a lot, but this is not the case.
Those friends with negative energy will never bring you positive energy.
A truly mature person knows how to subtract from life.
Make the circle smaller, stay away from people and things with negative energy, maintain self-discipline in prosperity and firm the direction of life.
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Not dry when you are free.
When people reach adulthood, life is often busy, and when they have little leisure, they often feel at a loss and are bored in all aspects.
Learning to get along with yourself is very important for everyone.
When people are upset, they can't know themselves correctly and see the essence of the problem, which will only increase anxiety and confusion.
The best way to cure anxiety and confusion is to calm down, think more and reflect on yourself.
There is a cloud in "Caigen Tan": "Sitting alone in the dead of night, I feel really poor at first, and I get lucky every time."
Solitude is a kind of wisdom and a realm.
Many times, when you dare to face yourself, reflect on yourself and get through loneliness, those inner thoughts and delusions will naturally disappear.
This is a beautiful process, and it is also a process to make yourself mature, fade from chaos, and then realize the true meaning of life.
No matter how busy your life is, you should stop occasionally to make room for yourself, take some time out and reflect on yourself regularly.
Always thinking about myself, always saving my body, always repairing my behavior.
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Go against the times and never lose heart.
Life is impermanent, sometimes there are bright spots, sometimes there are valleys, there are ups and downs, which is normal.
In adversity, many people complain about the cruelty of reality and the injustice of God.
In fact, this is the most time to test a person's willpower.
A wise man who knows how to be patient in adversity will take the reversal of time as a reminder:
When talent can't support ambition, just calm down and learn;
When the ability can't control the goal, just sink down and experience it.
Persist in studying hard and add value to yourself.
Read more books, enhance your ability and broaden your horizons, and many problems will naturally be solved.
With confidence and confidence, no matter how big the difficulty is, it will become insignificant.
The trough is not terrible. The most terrible thing is to admit your cowardice first and never recover.
People must not lose heart, let alone give up easily.
As long as you calm down, hold your horses and go forward, you will eventually survive the severe winter and usher in spring.
Life needs polishing to be quiet and far-reaching.
Get rid of distractions and troubles, so that the soul can be purified and the mind can be open-minded;
Only by stabilizing your emotions and polishing yourself can life be sublimated and wonderful.
"Don't be surprised, look at the flowers in front of the court; I have no intention of staying, and I have no intention of staying. I hope that the clouds in the sky will be smooth. "
Order one? I hope that you and I will be neither arrogant nor impetuous, idle nor unwilling, and will eventually polish our best selves.
Above, * * * encourage?
I am a child's heart, grow up with everyone and succeed together. Welcome attention?