If you don't die, you may leave yourself a way out. Most people don't decide life and death at the moment they break up.
In particular, "fake breakup" is likely to be a temptation or entanglement. I broke up just to get back together.
But more breakups are not absolute true breakups and absolute false breakups, but there is an elastic interval in the middle.
Couples with deep feelings often leave room for themselves when they are very angry. Because they subconsciously didn't think about whether they really broke up. When breaking up, control your emotions, don't say things to death, and don't do things absolutely. Actually, we are all looking forward to the possibility of getting back together.
2) I will also pay attention to your dynamics.
Some people will say that paying attention to your dynamics does not necessarily mean that you still want to make up, but it may just be a curiosity. Yes, that's right. But at least keep a curious peek at you, indicating that ta still cares about you.
Ta wants to see what you are like after breaking up. Ta will not only pay attention, but also interfere with things that ta can't accept (for example, if you have good friends of the opposite sex, Ta may be tempted to ask you. )
Because psychologically, ta is not completely divorced from the role of "your other half", so ta still cares.
3) Keep contact information.
The general contact information has been blacked out, and most of them don't want to get back together. Even if the other person still likes you, ta has tried to immunize you internally. In this case, it is still a little difficult to get back together, and it is even more impossible for the other party to contact you actively.
Leave some contact information, one is to pay attention to you, and the other is to contact you when necessary.
4) Send some news related to emotions.
This girl is particularly attractive. Generally, after breaking up, she can't help sending some articles and links related to feelings. Who wants to relive emotions over and over again after a truly disappointing and liberated breakup?
I won't say whether this dynamic is sent to you, but at least it proves that ta cares about breaking up.
For example, some girls in my circle of friends sent links, and I knew they had quarreled again.
For example, girls always expect their ex to send some friends, but the other party is often indifferent (maybe it really doesn't matter to you)
5) Have you found another lover?
If you are still in my heart, you won't find a new lover too early, unless this person is in good health in love rat (such a person doesn't deserve to say that he likes you).
There is another situation, that is, pretending to find a new lover to bother you, but this situation is easy to distinguish.
If you really break up for a while and then find a new lover to transition, it means that ta may really not intend to get back together. Moreover, it is naive to find someone to be an emotional substitute, and such a man does not need to save it.
6) Are you publicly single again?
People who have been in love for many years and often break up must have deep feelings. When you say "We broke up" to your friend three times, your friend won't believe you.
Moreover, it is a cognitive cost to disclose the "fact of breaking up" to people around you after breaking up. So once he thinks there is still a chance to get back together, he won't easily tell his relatives and friends that you broke up.