The TV series "Double-sided Adhesive" presents a realistic and terrible story for everyone. This story is based on a real case, so many people feel deeply after reading it.
The male and female protagonists in TV plays come from different living environments. The heroine grew up in the city, with a superior family and pampered, while the hero came from the countryside and suffered a lot from childhood, and there was a mother with a distorted outlook on life.
This kind of marriage was a mistake from the beginning, and the facts just proved it. The ending of the story is frightening and thought-provoking. Why do two unsuitable people live together?
Some people say that love is the most beautiful thing in the world. It is as beautiful as a flower. It can bloom on ice and snow or in lakes. As long as you can reach it, it is everywhere.
Love is really desirable. It is the crowning touch of life. When everyone has love, they often have a kind heart and even make life sweet instantly.
But the sweetness of love is only temporary, and real life is long. If you marry the wrong person, you will not only lose your sweet love, but also lose your beautiful life.
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Jiao Jiao, my best friend, is 28 years old. She has just been married for two years and her children are less than one year old. But now she has thought of divorce. She once had an enviable relationship with her boyfriend.
At that time, they were called golden couple, and she was determined to marry this poor boy with nothing. She once told everyone that her greatest wish in this life is to marry him, and she is willing to pay any price as long as she can be his wife.
At that time, everyone admired her courage, but now her courage has vanished with the torture of marriage. Now she just wants to end this marriage and go back to her old life.
Before getting married, Jiao Jiao had an independent house, which was bought by her parents. Although there are two children in Jiao Jiao's family, their parents have never had the idea of favoring sons over daughters. They bought a house not only for their son, but also for their daughter Jiao Jiao.
What they never expected was that a daughter with such good conditions would marry a poor boy. They thought about opposing it, but in the end they couldn't beat her and had to compromise.
After marriage, Jiao Jiao and her husband lived in her pre-marital property. They think they can live a happy life and have no pressure to buy a house. Unexpectedly, Jiao Jiao's in-laws moved in soon.
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The husband told her that his parents had lived in the countryside all their lives, never enjoyed happiness and never seen city life. Now that they are married and have a house, they should accept them anyway out of filial piety to their parents.
At that time, Jiao Jiao did not refute her husband. She even thought that her husband was a very filial person, but the following days made her very miserable.
The living habits of her in-laws make her unbearable. They like spitting and even littering, even when walking in the community. Jiao Jiao has told them many times, but they just won't change. They even think it's a sign that their daughter-in-law doesn't like them.
How do people with different living habits and values integrate with each other? The contradiction between them is getting bigger and bigger, and Jiao Jiao can't stand such a life any longer.
Jiao Jiao complained to her husband, hoping that he could talk to his in-laws and tell them to leave here and go back to the countryside as soon as possible. But her husband flew into a rage. He thinks that Jiao Jiao doesn't like his parents from the countryside.
In-laws have long been dissatisfied with Jiao Jiao. When quarreling with her husband, her mother-in-law fanned the flames in the middle, so the contradiction between Jiao Jiao and her husband became more and more serious and even out of control.
Originally, she only had to face the contradiction with her in-laws, and then she had to face the contradiction between husband and wife.
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She could bear all kinds of things before, but some time ago, her mother-in-law actually suggested that she sell the house to treat her sister.
Before that, Jiao Jiao never knew about her husband and sister's illness. If her in-laws didn't tell her, she would still be in the dark. The most ridiculous thing is that she hasn't met the so-called elder sister-in-law several times, and now her in-laws actually want her to sell a house to help.
She naturally chose to refuse, but her mother-in-law confidently said, "This matter is not for you to decide. You are our house, and so is the property! "
At that moment, Jiao Jiao suddenly felt how tired her marriage was. Her in-laws not only have unbearable living habits, but also have wonderful ideas.
In their concept, the daughter-in-law is the private property of the husband's family, and the property of the daughter-in-law also belongs to the husband's family with the day of marriage.
What a ridiculous and ridiculous thing it is. Jiao Jiao answered her mother-in-law directly: "Do you have a penny? Did you write your name on the real estate license? Does the property recognize you or me? Do you have the right to dispose of the house? "
Her mother-in-law was speechless in an instant. Jiao Jiao walked into the room and slammed the door. Now she has been extremely disappointed with this marriage. She doesn't want to do this anymore. She is afraid that she will be depressed because of this marriage.
Bian Xiao has something to say:
Marrying a man without marrying a phoenix man, a "poverty alleviation" marriage is a strangulation to women.
It is often said that it is normal for men to be poor when they are young, because they have no backing and confidence at this time, but as long as they are willing to make progress, they will certainly have a good life.
It is true that although some men were born in poverty and eventually lived a life of food and clothing by their own efforts, this does not mean that girls with superior families should choose to help the poor.
Even if they can be rich and expensive in the future, so what? After all, you are people from two different worlds, and it is difficult to be happy even if you live together.
Marriage is not about two people, but about two families. You should not only face him, but also face his family.
Are you sure you can face such a complicated relationship? Are you sure you can adapt to the lifestyle of their family? Are you sure your love can stand the test of reality?
Some things don't know the answer until you try, but it's too late to turn back then. Even if I look back, I will be scarred in the end. So why bother?
I hope all women in the world can keep a clear head, cherish life and stay away from Phoenix Man!