If it is out of temptation, it is necessary to know what the other party really wants to do, and don't bother yourself if you understand it yourself.
If it is to get your attention, you need to understand how important this person is to you, how important this person thinks of you, and more importantly, whether what he says and does is for your own good or for another purpose, and what his real purpose is. This is very important. Only in this way can we make a wise choice.
If it is out of jealousy, it is necessary to keep a straight face. Only in this way can the person who wants to hurt you know that everything he has tried his best to do has no harm to you. This is the best protection for yourself.
When you feel that someone deliberately irritates you and hurts you, don't blindly think that you are not doing well enough, that you are not a good roommate and friend, and that there is something wrong with your life and personality. Calm down and think about whose fault all this is. 1 Hacked you behind your back once, and then let you go. In the face of a villain, no matter what the occasion, don't tell him that you are afraid, and don't be kind to him. If you belong to the villain, the kinder you are, the more vicious he is. If you don't care about him, you will indulge the villain, and the number of times you are framed will increase. If you don't care, others will think that what the villain says behind his back is true. At that time, you can't argue, you can only knock out your teeth and swallow them in your stomach. You dare to dispute with the villain behind you. In addition to letting the villain see your blood and let others know that what the villain said behind your back is false, you can better prove your innocence.
Once you find it, use it to knock the gong face to face. For the villain behind you, you must shake the mountain. In order to avoid similar phenomena from happening again in the future, as a party, you must dare to have a face-to-face gong with the villain behind you. You must ask QingNong why he said that. We should learn to attack his shameless practices with sharp language, expose his dirty black tricks to everyone, let the black tricks behind him have nowhere to hide, and let everyone see his true colors. Only in this way will there be no room and soil for such little people to grow up.
If the first two moves fail, attack its shield with its spear. In the daily process of dealing with villains, if the above two are not good, it shows that such villains have practiced the kung fu of iron wall. No matter how hard you try, no matter how sharp your language is, I'm afraid such a villain will go his own way and remain indifferent in front of everyone. So we must learn to attack the villain's shield with the villain's spear. To put it bluntly, deal with a man as he deals with you. There is always only one sentence. You must be more cruel to such a villain, so that in your environment, there is a way to completely purify the villain. Even if you can't do this, let the little people behind you know that you are not easy to mess with. Only in this way can your life and work be stable and happy.
Edited on 2020-12/09
Huang Changmin Yijing Emotional Counsellor
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Lawyers who fight criminal cases _ A person really has six kinds of talents:
1, what's the matter, unknown, secretly layout, quietly let you fall.
2, does not involve personal interests, turn a blind eye, he who sees through does not say it, he who sees through does not expose it.
3. Speak carefully, never express opinions or opinions indiscriminately, read more and talk less.
4, playing the fool, seeing better than anyone, showing an ignorant look.
5, the outer circle is inside, the appearance is smooth and round, and the heart adheres to the principle.
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