In fact, there are many such people around us, who are silently under the pressure of society and family. We are very touched. Difficulties are opened with love, and roads are paved with love. Let us give love to those who need our help. The outcome is doomed, so please don't haggle over every ounce, face it with your heart, communicate face to face, avoid anything, and don't fail to face those who have hurt us. An unintentional mistake may have caused us permanent damage, but the damage has been done and we can't go back to the past. We can only face up to our present, because we can face the reality.
A great mother, no matter what injuries she has suffered before, is open to those who have caused her injuries. This is a kind of courage and a kind of love from her heart, which shows us that there is still love in the world. We are all born in 1980s, and now we are all trying to make a living and enjoying the beauty of modern society. Not many people will be willing to pay. A true story may change your mind.
Father's debt and son's repayment should be familiar to us. The following story can tell the story of a son paying off his father's emotional debt. So, I want to say: I hope we won't do this in the future, don't leave emotional debts to future generations, and don't let them pay your debts. Although the father's debt and son's compensation are all in the past tense, now let's remember these things and be sure to be responsible for this relationship at the beginning.
A father chose to divorce and start a new marriage, not because of family discord, but because he left home with a new love. The appearance of a woman makes a family change from harmony to broken instantly, and makes a mother suffer too much pressure and pain. The mother and son lived alone for ten years. Ten years, a long time, can make a child grow to ten years old; Can make mother ten years older; Can make a child lose ten years of fatherly love. We still have a few decades.
Ten years later, a ten-year-old child, Xiaoqian, suddenly appeared in front of our eyes. Ding Wei (Xiao Gan's half-brother), a man who is about to become a father. Mrding (Ding Wei's father), a father who let others around him, a man who abandoned his family and left his lover and son. Mother Ding, an ordinary mother who has suffered for ten years, has great maternal love and is ten years older. Xiaoya (Ding Wei's lover), a happy woman who is about to become a mother. Wang Yun, a woman whose mother hated Ding for ten years.
This is how the story begins. ...
Ten years ago, Wang Yun worked as a cleaner in a hospital and met Ding's mother. Seeing Wang Yun's dexterity and cleverness, mother Ding introduced her to her lover's company as an operator, but she didn't expect her lover to leave home for Wang Yun. In this way, Wang Yun stole Ding's lover, leaving only Ding's mother and two people. Ding's mother is very sad. She didn't expect her lover to leave her. She left herself for that woman, which was hard for Ding's mother to accept.
Six years later, Ding Wei's father died, and Ding Wei went to see his father off. Ding Wei's father told Ding Wei that he should take good care of his sister Xiao Gan in the future, and then he died. Ding Wei remembered his father's words.
Four years later, Wang Yun has terminal cancer and may leave at any time. But what worries her most is her daughter. If she leaves, Xiao Gan will have no relatives, and she will become an orphan, and no one will take care of her. At that time, he stood up and said that he wanted to take care of it, but he was strongly opposed by Ding's mother. Just four years ago, Ding Wei's father died, and Ding Wei's father transferred the property to Xiao Gan and Ding Wei, half of which was left to Xiao Gan and Wang Yun's mother and daughter, while Ding Wei did not. Four years later, Wang Yun got cancer and wanted to entrust it to Dante's mother. Ten years ago, Wang Yun's appearance destroyed her family, but now she wants to entrust Xiao Gan to this family. Of course mother ding won't agree. Ding Wei insisted on taking Xiao Gan home, because this is her half-sister, and she was entrusted to her by her father when he left. Ding Wei also made a decision that her family opposed. She wants to spend all her money on treating Wang Yun, which makes Ding's mother even more opposed. This decision was also opposed by his lover Xiaoya, whose baby is about to be born. Now they still live in a house of only 40 square meters, and they have to buy a house after the baby is born, so Xiaoya strongly opposes Ding Wei spending all his money to treat Wang Yun. All these make Ding Wei feel the pressure. Mother Ding doesn't accept taking it home either. Mother Ding has carried it alone for ten years. Every New Year, Mother Ding will go to the nursing home to visit those lonely old people and spend the New Year with them. Little by little, Mother Ding lived and suffered for ten years. For ten years, only one son has supported her. Mother Ding doesn't want to talk about the past or anything that makes her sad, because it is her nightmare. Now, my son is reminding himself of this nightmare. Later, through the program, Mother Ding met Wang Yun. Mother Ding really doesn't want to see Wang Yun. Although mother Ding hasn't seen Wang Yun for ten years, she doesn't want to see Wang Yun. Things always have to be faced and solved. Finally, the two met. Because it was Wang Yun's initiative, because Wang Yun wanted to apologize to Ding's mother through the program. Wang Yun told Ding's mother that she was very sorry for her and that she had ruined Ding's family. Now I have cancer, which is my own karma. He may leave at any time, but Wang Yun is most worried about his daughter. No one can take care of his daughter after he left. Wang Yun said that his relatives should take care of Xiao Gan, but Wang Yun didn't trust them to take care of Xiao Gan. His relatives were very opposed to her ten years ago and have cut off contact with themselves. Xiao Gan is now ten years old. During these ten years, her family has never come to see Xiao Gan. Now, they want to look after Xiao Gan. Wang Yun said they didn't want to take care of Xiao Gan at all. The purpose is to get the property and money inherited by Xiao Gan. Wang Yun made a decision and wanted Ding Wei to take good care of Xiao Gan, so she made such a request. Wang Yun also knows that this is not a simple matter. I hope Ding Can's mother will forgive her and help her take good care of Xiao Gan. Wang Yun tells Xiao Gan every day that Xiao Gan has a big mother, a very caring big mother. In Xiao Gan's memory, there is no appearance of a big mother, but she still has the memory of a big mother. Xiao gan studies very well and is very sensible. Xiao Gan drew a picture of herself, Ding Wei's brother, father and mother, and there was a blank place for her older mother, so she didn't know how to draw it. This painting was given to Ding Wei's mother by Wang Yun, and Ding Wei's mother was very moved when she saw it. Finally, Ding Wei's mother made a request, that is, let Wang Yun have a good treatment and try to cure the disease. At the same time, Ding Gu will also take out some money to treat Wang Yun. As long as Wang Yun can get a good treatment, he will accept the child. This decision is very unexpected, and the family will hold together.
I want to tell you that the children are innocent, whether Xiao Gan or Ding Wei, they are innocent. It is precisely because of my father's mistake that the current emotional debt will be caused. This emotional debt has to be paid by the children. This kind of father debt is really selfish A child became an orphan in this way. If we don't express our love, we will lose another life. It's really touching that Ding Wei dares to stand up and bear all this. With the heart of being opposed and accused by his family, he stood up to accept his father's daughter and raise his sister. His contribution is not simple, but he has to bear the responsibility for his sister. Let's cheer for Ding Wei.
At the same time, warn post-80s not to play games with emotion. Have you ever thought about who will be hurt by playing this kind of emotional game? It's time for the post-80s generation to step into the society. Don't treat feelings as trifles, and don't let us bear the stigma of paying our father's debts. A relationship is destined to have a responsibility. We are all ordinary people.