Jiang Mumu was a rebellious girl since she was a child, but she didn't listen to anything her parents said, whether it was really good for her or not. After graduating from high school, Jiang Mumu didn't want to go to school anyway, and his parents tried their best to change Jiang Mumu's mind.
From then on, Jiang Mumu became a part-time worker very early. Of course, he couldn't find a decent job because of his academic qualifications. She changed a lot of jobs and later met her boyfriend there when she was a waiter in a restaurant. She told her parents about the relationship. At that time, her parents advised her not to be hasty in emotional matters and to get to know each other better.
But once again, the rebellious Jiang Mumu turned a deaf ear to his parents' words. We only knew each other for more than two months, then we moved in with our boyfriend and got pregnant soon. Water under the bridge. From dating to getting married, boyfriends have become husbands.
At this time, Jiang Mumu and her husband returned to their home for the first time. This is really a remote village. When I arrived in Jiang Mumu, I was dumbfounded. My husband's house is really poor, dirty and messy, and there is no room for me to leave. Looking at this situation in this man's home, Jiang Mumu really regretted it.
It's just that what's done is done. When I returned to their temporary rented new house, Mumu's heart was really cold. But the days will pass eventually. After pregnancy, Jiang Mumu didn't go to work again, and only depended on her husband's income. At this time, her husband's attitude towards her is getting worse and worse.
In the final analysis, I just don't like that Jiang Mumu doesn't make money, and even think that Jiang Mumu is a drag on his life. After the baby was born, her husband gave Jiang Mumu only enough money for the baby every month, not a penny more. Even if Jiang Mumu is fine at home, she will be accused by her husband of using more water and electricity.
Jiang Mumu felt that she had married the wrong man, that her husband was not good to herself at all, and that she lived a dark life. She thinks her life is really bad. How could she marry such a man?
02
Fangfang is 28 years old this year. Because she has never found a suitable object, she really worried her parents and asked someone to introduce her. Fangfang can't remember how many times she kissed each other, but she has never met anyone who can make her heart beat. As a result, her parents were even more anxious and even reprimanded Fangfang for asking too many questions.
Until a few days ago, Fangfang met another blind date. In fact, the other party left a bad impression on her, but she was helpless. Her parents like that boy very much and have been asking Fangfang for permission. Under the attitude of parents, Fangfang hardly contacted him for a while, but still felt inappropriate.
She also told her parents what she thought, but her parents completely ignored her, and even told Fangfang that you two get along well and it's almost ok. Why are you so picky? Next, almost regardless of Fangfang's feelings, parents came forward to set this marriage for Fangfang.
In this case, plus parents have been nagging in Fangfang's ear, in fact, men are almost the same, and you will know when you get married. Isn't life like this? There is no perfection. Under the interference of this thought, Fangfang also acquiesced in this marriage.
Only later Fangfang and her boyfriend went to the mall to buy a ring. What she didn't expect was that her future husband was beyond her imagination, not only very careful, but also very picky and unfriendly to the salespeople in the mall. After picking the ring for more than three hours, Fangfang was a little impatient.
It was even more exaggerated later. When two people go to order wedding photos, their boyfriends are still the same. All kinds of picky and comparison, it took more than six hours to order wedding photos. This attitude of her boyfriend made Fangfang feel particularly devastated. She feels completely different from her boyfriend.
At this time, Fangfang realized that this man was not a suitable marriage partner, so she told her parents her feelings and thoughts and told them that she really didn't get along with him. Otherwise, she will give up this marriage.
As a result, when her parents heard this, they swept over Fangfang and scolded her, saying that she didn't know when it was a well-off society. Such a careful person will definitely make a living in the future.
However, Fangfang was very sad. She is confused about the future. She doesn't think she will be happy to marry this man, but she can't resist the pressure from her parents. And the marriage is settled, even the wedding photos were taken. What can she do? Considering her age, Fangfang even had the idea of resigning.
03
Girls who usually marry badly usually have these characteristics. I hope you won't.
First, marry an unknown man.
Jiang Mumu, for example, didn't know much about a man, didn't know each other's personality or family background, didn't know each other for a long time, committed himself to him in a fog, and even had children. In this case, he is anxious to marry the other party.
Secondly, marry for the sake of marriage, and marry a man who is not suitable for you.
Fang Fang, for example, is obviously a man who is not suitable for herself, but she has to accept this marriage because of her parents' orders. When she realized that two people couldn't get along, she didn't dare to stick to her own ideas, and even chose to get married hastily with a resigned attitude.
Under such circumstances, it is conceivable that how can a marriage be happy? When you regret that your marriage is not good, feel that your fate is not good, and your marriage is unfortunate, have you really reflected? Maybe these misfortunes were doomed from the day you got married?
Many times, a girl who regrets marrying the wrong person actually has the same thing, that is, she is irresponsible to herself.
Whether Jiang Mumu or Fangfang, in the final analysis, they are not responsible for themselves, or irresponsible for their marriage. When you are irresponsible and don't take it seriously, you will always lose all your hopes in the hands of men and fantasize that men can bring you happiness.
After all, from the moment you are irresponsible, you have lost control of your own destiny, and it seems inevitable that life will not be smooth.