First, son preference.
There are many feudal families in modern society. They believe that women have the obligation to carry on the family line, but many people who have no children or only girls after marriage will be spurned or even treated violently by their families.
Of course, it is not artificial to have boys and girls, but the stability of marriage is particularly important in this patriarchal family. Those women who cannot have children after marriage are even more unfortunate after marriage.
Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.
After marriage, we should handle not only the relationship between husband and wife, but also the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, if you don't handle it or don't handle it properly, your family will make a fuss and fidget. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been like this. The other party thinks that she forgot her mother when she married her daughter-in-law, is jealous of you, and thinks that you have occupied her children.
In fact, it is not difficult to solve the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Learn to smile and be rational about unreasonable things. When it hurts your interests, learn to analyze it with emotional psychology and let the other person put themselves in your shoes. When encountering contradictions, don't rush to express them and let the other party vent. You start with a good word and let her know that you are doing it for her own good.
Third, the two sides have different personalities.
Many celebrities divorce, and after being exposed, they basically explain why they divorce on the grounds of personality disagreement.
Living together after marriage will inevitably lead to bumps and bumps. A word, a tone and an action will cause the dissatisfaction of the other party.
Especially when the other person is not in front of you when you need it, which many people can't understand after marriage. Don't they live together every day after marriage? Why do you keep in touch? It doesn't affect your work.
This is the difference between men and women. A woman is more likely to show possessiveness after marriage, because it can make her feel happy, but men don't think so. He thinks everyone is married, and the law recognizes it. No one can take you away, so he won't care about you deliberately.
And contradictions will gradually arise.
Happy things when you get married are also the beginning of two people's future, and married life needs two people to run in together, and you can't be furious because of each other's defects. This is inevitable, no one is perfect. Since we have come together, personality differences are not a problem. We should learn to tolerate each other.
Fourth, economic pressure.
There are many things to consider after marriage. Some people buy houses and cars, and some people are busy decorating and starting businesses, all of which need a strong source of income. Many couples will forget their original vows because of daily necessities.
This is not surprising. Everyone wants to imagine their married life, but what is really together is a plain life, making money together to support their families.
Fifth, there is a third party in marriage.
You shouldn't betray each other, whether before or after marriage? In marriage, when you find that the other person goes out early and comes back late and no longer cares about you, you should know whether there is a third party. The third party appears because you can't meet some requirements of the other party in marriage, so you should learn to reflect.
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