Moreover, as long as a person is hurt again and encounters the same thing again, she has a strong sense of protection and will not open her heart to communicate with him again.
There are many kinds of communication. A kind of communication only meets once, and the superficial communication is over, leaving no contact information. We may not even know his name next time we meet.
The second kind of profound friendship, when you encounter something, you are helpless and everyone refuses to help you, he appears and helps you. This person can associate with you for a long time. There is also a friend circle hobby that you share. When you work hard to achieve something, you will find that two people can communicate better.
There are many similar places to communicate, just like choosing friends when you first step into college. The first look at your eyes, the second look at your talk, and the third look at your future life are all the same hobbies. The communication between girls is often so simple and complicated. But it is full of art, and it is your greatest luck to find a friend worthy of communication.
Of course, if your friends can only bring you negative energy, you'd better stay away. Xiaoli has reached the watershed of 30 years old when she is single. Her parents have been urging her to get married quickly. Every time she goes home on holiday, she will mention whether she has a boyfriend.
During the Chinese New Year, seven aunts and eight aunts will go home and mention her age and whether she has a boyfriend. Xiaoli sometimes wants to avoid them and doesn't want to go home and find an excuse to go out. long
Over time, parents know Xiaoli's personal thoughts, and every time they ask her, they can't get an answer. Later it became a holiday, and her parents would arrange for her to go on various blind dates. Xiao Li met Xiao Deng on a blind date. Xiao Deng made a good first impression on Xiao Ali. He thinks he is a very gentle boy and will take care of Xiao Li everywhere. He stood from Xiao Li's point of view and considered what Xiao Li needed.
Xiaoli began to think that two people can be good friends even if they can't be boyfriend and girlfriend, so she left contact information for each other to communicate further. Regardless of the outcome, Xiao Deng gave Xiaoli a very satisfactory impression.
In an instant, Xiao Li and Xiao Deng have known each other for three months. Xiao Li has a particularly good overall impression of Xiao Deng. Xiao Li sometimes fantasizes about how wonderful his future life will be.
Until one time, Xiao Deng called Xiaoli and said, Xiaoli, I am going to buy a house. Can you lend me tens of thousands of dollars? Besides, the two of us have been dating. Will this be our wedding room in the future? Xiao Li was very surprised and then answered Zheng Xiao. Can I write my name on the property certificate? ?
Xiao Deng said:? Most of the money was given by my parents with their names on it, but it will definitely be ours in the future. As long as we continue to associate, I will pay you back? , Xiaoli answered? Now I don't have that much money to turn around. Excuse me. Later, Xiao Deng hung up and did not contact Xiaoli for several days.
Xiaoli doesn't know what she did wrong. After all, she really doesn't have that much money now, and her family conditions are not very good. All the wages she earned in recent years have been given to her parents, and there is not much money to help Xiao Deng.
Xiao Li tried to ask Xiao Deng out for dinner. Xiao Deng's performance at the dinner table was lukewarm, giving the impression that he was an ordinary friend and didn't want to continue the relationship, so Xiao Li didn't explain to him why he didn't lend him the money.
The two gradually stopped contacting each other. Later, Xiaoli's parents continued to arrange blind dates for Xiaoli, and life continued. Later, there were people in Xiaoli's life who were worthy of communication.
In fact, when people get along with each other, it used to be said that talking about money hurts feelings. Although it hurts feelings, there are many people who borrow money in this society, and many people will break up because of money.
When you really have no choice, go to the person who is really willing to help you. Don't talk about money when you are desperate. Borrowing money from someone who just got along with you will make him think that you are dating him only for profit, which will hurt your feelings and make it impossible for you to stay in contact for a long time.
Communication is not for money, but in many ways. This example is just a common communication problem in life. Communication is a science that needs continuous learning.