First, it depends on whether the consultant's consulting style suits you.
There is a matching problem between consultants and visitors. If you don't like this consultant after consulting once or twice, or this consultant makes you feel very uncomfortable, you can consider changing to another consultant.
When an industry elder was doing a series of initial self-experiences, he felt that the consultant was always cold, which led to his depression for a while. So if you like a warmer consultant, you can find a relatively gentle consultant.
Second, it depends on whether the consultant will abide by the consulting ethics.
Consultants need to abide by the professional ethics of the industry and cannot use the trust of visiting consultants for personal gain. You can't have a double relationship with visitors. You can't have any kind of sexual and intimate relationship with visitors.
In clinical consultation, to judge whether a consultant is qualified, we should first consider whether he will bring harm to the clinic. If he brings some unmet needs in real life to the consultation, he is not a qualified consultant.
Third, understand whether the consultant has been insisting on learning and keeping pace with the times.
Psychology has been developing, and a lot of knowledge ten years ago will be replaced by new scientific discoveries. We know that in Freud's time, psychoanalysis at that time had some simple and rude conclusions in the early stage of development.
With the development of the times, these theories are gradually improving. In previous psychological counseling, visitors didn't know themselves, while counselors knew more about narcissism. Nowadays, there are more and more theories that visitors know themselves best, that visitors' real feelings and thoughts are only clear to themselves, that counselors play the role of inspiration and guidance, and that counselors are less self-righteous.
A consultant will continue to learn, and his consulting ability will become stronger and stronger, thus providing better services to visitors. If a consultant is self-righteous and complacent, then even a famous consultant will fall behind.
Professional emotional teachers can find Dolphin Sea psychological counseling and provide professional emotional counseling. Through the 24-hour online tracking and guidance of the expert team, they can fully understand the needs of customers and provide a more comfortable service experience for help seekers.
You can get a free psychological evaluation after seeing the advertisement in the store, and try to experience it with a try-and-see attitude. I didn't expect the teacher to be amiable and very professional. First of all, I learned about my personal situation and signed a confidentiality agreement. This is good, and the effect is really good. The teacher guided me to explore my true thoughts, recognize myself, and then gave me opinions and suggestions.