It is possible that some relatives and friends around us began to find various excuses to borrow money before the house was built. Even if he knew you were going to buy a house in the morning, it was impossible to lend him money. He might say, "You must help me in our relationship. Buying a house can be delayed. My business is very urgent. "
It is also possible that a relative is ill and needs money badly. If you don't borrow this money, you will say that you have no humanity and no sympathy. So maybe the house hasn't been bought yet, and the money is almost borrowed.
It is also possible that a relative is ill and needs money badly. If you don't borrow this money, you will say that you have no humanity and no sympathy. So maybe the house hasn't been bought yet, and the money is almost borrowed.
Another possibility is that three aunts and six grandmothers don't borrow money from you, but give you all kinds of opinions and give you a headache. It is good for you to know these relatives and friends, but it takes a lot of time to deal with these interpersonal relationships. With so much time, it is enough to study real estate information by yourself.
If the house they finally buy is different from the advice they offer, they may be told that they will lose money if they don't listen to the old man.
After buying a house, some people envy and hate, and then all kinds of strange tones, if the house they buy does not appreciate, many people will be satirized and attacked. Originally, I bought the wrong house, but it was very uncomfortable without appreciation. I was still nagging and annoyed.
Some people may really care about you sometimes, and some people want you to be unpredictable, but they still don't say anything and make less trouble.
There are still many people who don't tell their relatives and friends before buying a house, and they won't tell their relatives and friends after buying a house.
Mainly because buying a house is just needed. In fact, everyone needs it, and there is no need to show it off. It is possible that you think you are great and show off, which is no big deal in the eyes of others. Maybe people still don't like you to buy a second-hand house or the house you bought is too small for them to look down upon.
It may also lead to the jealousy of some small people and cynicism everywhere, such as: "I borrowed money from his family before and said I had no money." You see, how long it has been now, and I have the money to buy a house. "
Some relatives and friends will think you are rich when they buy a house, so every time they get together or go to the city where you live, they ask you to pay, eat, pack and play, and bring back special products. If you have money, please, and spend money. They don't care if you have a mortgage to pay. Is it economical at ordinary times and I don't want to go to the next restaurant?
My friend Xiao An's family has good economic conditions. After arriving in the big city, I found a boyfriend. Xiao An's parents sponsored Xiao An's down payment, and the husband and wife bought a house of 130 square meters.
Xiao' an's parents are so proud that they show off around their relatives that Xiao' an has bought a new house and intends to join in.
One or two relatives said: Your family is so rich that you can buy a house in a big city. You should invite us to join this group this time.
Xiao 'an's parents have a lot of face, but they are also easy to refuse. On the day they joined the group, these relatives drove for three or four hours to Xiao 'an's home, not only for food and shelter, but also for play. They stayed here directly for several nights before coming home reluctantly. Before going home, they had to ask Xiao An to buy some special products for them and let them take them home to their neighbors. After Ann bought it, they didn't even bother to be polite and didn't give Ann a penny. So, of course, they ate and drank enough and went back to their hometown.
After such a trip, his relatives didn't even pay a penny, and even the gas money was paid by Xiao An's parents. Xiao An didn't expect that these relatives joined the group without even a red envelope. Usually, when these relatives join this group, Xiao An's parents will give each family a big red envelope.
During this trip, Ann's heart was bleeding, and tens of thousands of dollars were quickly spent. No one would have thought of her difficulties. She had to tighten her belt for several months.
Relatives want to travel to Xiao 'an from time to time. To put it bluntly, traveling here is free and you can stay in Xiao 'an. I live in her house, so other expenses must be solved.
When Xiao An bought a house for the second time, he kept a low profile. He didn't tell these relatives and friends. Even if some relatives knew about it, Xiao An asked his parents to say that he was changing rooms instead of buying a new house. Ann is really afraid of these relatives.
Not everyone's relatives are like a small family.
Many people don't think it's necessary to tell friends and relatives, but they don't think it's necessary to compare, because not everyone is willing to be really happy for you.
Everyone is an ordinary family, so there is no need to stand out from the crowd. Sometimes, after buying a house, we can live in harmony without telling our relatives and friends. How to stand out, it is possible that the relationship will be stale.