At the age of 32, I was hired by President Cheng Yanping to teach in Zhongshan School. This decision became an important turning point in my life.
Before that, my life was barren, my life had almost no goal, my ideal was far away from me, and my work took over intermittently. I worked as a plasterer, a container porter, a factory operator, a restaurant waiter, and even a hotel owner, and even experienced a period of unemployment. I not only have a hard life, but also have a bad relationship with my relatives. I have many contradictions and alienation, and I often feel impetuous, bored, angry and helpless.
It was a coincidence that I went to the mountain to teach, because one day I caught a glimpse of it, and the newspaper published a job advertisement, which moved my mind to apply. And the school didn't recruit anyone at that time. As an amateur without education, I was successfully admitted to teach in the mountains. It's really incredible to look back now.
There are few school rules in the mountains, and freedom is almost laissez-faire. Teachers are not allowed to scold children. When children don't enter the classroom, have no emotional conflicts and make no mistakes, teacher-student interaction becomes knowledge. Once I encounter setbacks in teaching, I often think that it is better to go home.
I grew up in a broken family. Although my father was very concerned, he couldn't help but scold me. Therefore, he is withdrawn and rarely participates in interaction or learning. Just for teaching, I want to learn to communicate with children. I was recommended by Zhang Yaohua and signed up for the lecture on "The God of the Forest Mode", and then I was instructed by John Berman with Zhang Tianan, which became a turning point in my life.
John Berman is familiar with iceberg dialogue. When I first explored the Satyr model, I was amazed at the iceberg exploration and learned from it. I use icebergs not only for myself, but also for talking with children. Even my parents, colleagues, parents, brothers and sisters have achieved harmonious results, especially knowing how to explore and deal with emotions. The harmony and tranquility in my heart disappeared, even the stiffness of my shoulders and neck, migraine and chest tightness no longer appeared. This is an incredible course.