2. Famous aphorisms and sentences
If you don't teach your brother first, the rate of children will not be ignored. -Bangu
The words of sages and people with lofty ideals to their descendants, Li Yizhi and Fu Lizhi; Persuaded right, persuaded cheated; Show frugality and luxury; You need words to get rich. —— Wang Fu
Discipline your son with righteousness and reunite his family with courtesy. -Sima Guang
What is a father? A good teacher. -& lt； Three-character sutra)
Family education combines leniency with severity, and family members are safe all their lives. Lu Jinxi
Love your son more than teach him. It is better to be good than not to teach. —— Huang Zongxi
Between families, every word and deed should be counted as children's footwork. -Zhang Lvxiang
Godson must take the lead. Every time I see other people's children, my father and brother have no intention of supervision, but they are fixed in scale, good in temperament, and very cold to their fathers. They all set an example. Lu Shiyi
In a wealthy family, children are spoiled too much, and all the punishment comes from now. -Chen Hongmou
Reasoning is the real way to treat children. -Locke
Example is more important to children than criticism. Joubert
Virtue should be warned as soon as possible before evil takes over the mind. -Comenius
It is parents' duty to educate their children to be independent. -Junzo Koizumi
Whoever wants his son to respect him and his orders should respect his son very much. -Locke
The integrity and unity of family collectives are the basic conditions for a good education. Makarenko.
According to the law of God's influence and the viewpoint of perfect human nature, all arbitrary, imperative, absolute and interfering education, teaching and training are enough to destroy and destroy. -Roupell.
3. Relevant examples
a coin
David Brenner, a famous American comedian, turned to his father for help when he graduated from high school. His father gave him a coin and told him, "Use this coin to buy a newspaper, read it word for word, and then turn to the advertising column to find a job and make a breakthrough in the world." Later, David Brenner succeeded through hard struggle. In retrospect, the star thought his father's coins were "the best gift".
B, a mother saved a superstar.
/kloc-at the age of 0/2, American Edison was expelled from school because he liked to "play" scientific tricks, and was mistaken by the principal for being playful. This made Edison's young mind suffer a great blow. However, his mother knows her son's interests best, and she won't think that his interests are doing nothing. She specially opened a laboratory for Edison in the basement to support children's small scientific experiments, so that Edison's inventive intelligence was fully developed, and finally he invented incandescent bulbs, telegraphs, phonographs, etc., and discovered the phenomenon of thermionic emission.
C. Love for children is not only obedience, but also material satisfaction and spiritual comfort. Let the child feel the taste of hunger and tell him the sufferings of the people in old China, then he will cherish the hard-won happy life today; Let the child stand in the cold wind in thin clothes and let him feel the harshness of the "biting cold wind", then he will definitely study harder and March forward bravely under the sunshine and rain of the society.
If you indulge and obey children blindly, it will only encourage their arrogance, make them weak, selfish and mediocre, and do not strive for progress. How can this ensure the safety of children?
It is the greatest wish of every parent's life to hope that their children will succeed in the future, get ahead and become pillars of society, which is also the real meaning of raising children. Parents love their children, but in different ways. Spoiling will only bring negative effects. True love is not blind love in words or actions, but strict but not strict, gentle but not soft. This is the extension of true love.