"Hello, child, I'm Li Jiayu's mother."
"Oh, hello, Sun Xiao!" It turned out to be the mother of the child's classmate.
"Is it convenient for you to answer the phone now?"
"Convenient, convenient, you say." Xiao Tong's answer was accompanied by some doubts in his mind. Li Jiayu is her daughter's deskmate. At the last parent-teacher meeting, the two mothers left each other their phone numbers.
"How's your girl recently? Did you find nothing? "
"Recently? What did you find? What happened? Sun Xiao? " When Sun Xiao mentioned her daughter, Xiao Tong felt nervous and couldn't help sitting up straight. What happened to her daughter?
"Recently found that Li Jiayu always absent-minded, don't concentrate on learning. I chatted with my children last night and realized that it was probably puppy love. "
"Puppy love? ! "Children blurt out, junior high school grade one, puppy love? Xiao Tong couldn't believe his ears.
"Yes, Xiao Tong, my son carved the initials of your girl's name on his wrist for fear that I would find it blocked by a watch. Your girl's name is written in many places in the textbook. " In Xiao Tong's voice, it sounds like Sun Xiao has a trace of blame.
"My son told me that because of this incident, he was very painful and could not study normally. Now he wants to study hard and doesn't want to think about these things any more. In order to forget these things, he often runs around desperately on the playground, but there is no way. " Before Xiao Tong could speak, Sun Xiao said a lot in one breath.
"Sun Xiao, I'm sorry. I really don't know. I'll ask the children. I ... "I don't know why, Xiao Tong apologized.
"Xiao Tong, I have no other meaning. I don't want my son to get hurt. I told him it was foolish to carve words on him. If there is anything, I should tell my mother, and she will help solve it. Don't get too excited when you go back. Observe the child and talk to her. Children are too young to handle things. After a long time, it will definitely affect their study. "
"Yes, Sun Xiao, I think you are right. I'll talk to my children when I get back. Thank you for calling me. "
"Xiao Tong, I don't know if I should tell you. My son said that it is not good for your girl to always play with male students. "
"Oh, I will talk to her about this. I ... "Xiao Tong felt very red in the face, and her daughter liked to play with boys since she was a child. Xiao Tong never took this seriously.
Hung up the phone of Sun Xiao, Xiao Tong couldn't sit still any longer. He immediately dialed his lover's phone and told him everything he had just heard.
"You say, what can I do? I fell in love early on the first day, and the parents of boys called. " Xiao Tong asked anxiously.
The lover is nervous when he listens, and so are the two of them. Finally, they discussed that Xiao Tong should talk to her daughter first, get to know the situation, and then be sensible.
After talking with his lover, Xiao Tong leaned back in his chair and stared at the computer screen in front of him, but all he could think about was his daughter. Growing up, she was picked up by her lover sooner or later after entering junior high school and was busy with her work. She just goes back to her daughter's little house every night, says a few words and leaves. She didn't notice any change in her children. She was facing adolescence and didn't take precautions against puppy love in advance.
It's so dereliction of duty.
Today is really a long day. Xiao Tong kept imagining how to communicate with her daughter in her mind, and repeatedly drafted what she wanted to say in her mind. For example, it is normal to like students of the opposite sex at this stage, but this kind of love can only be maintained at the level of friendship, not "love"; For example, the harm of puppy love, such as the words of writer Liu Qing, "The road of life is long, but there are often only a few steps at stake ..." and so on.
In the evening, it is estimated that my daughter's homework will be finished soon. To serve you with a plate of cut fruit walked into the daughter's room.
"Baby, eat the fruit." Xiao Tong said as she sat on the bed beside her daughter.
"Oh, Mom," the daughter promised without looking up.
"Dog, don't write yet, eat fruit first." Xiao Tong gently stroked her daughter's hair with her hand. Since entering middle school, my daughter has been cut into short mushroom heads according to the requirements of the school.
"Hey, Mom!" The little mushroom head stopped his pen, looked at Xiao Tong and opened his mouth.
"Little Lai Gui!" Xiao Tong smiled and stuck an apple with a toothpick and handed it to her daughter's mouth.
"Baby, why didn't your deskmate Li Jiayu listen to you recently?" After a little calm down, Xiao Tong finally spoke.
"Li Jiayu? What does he have to say? " Xiao Tong clearly felt the eyes of the little mushroom head dodging.
"You two haven't quarreled recently, have you?" Xiao Tong decided to take circuitous tactics.
"I don't care about him, narrow-minded!" My daughter munched on an apple and said angrily.
"Is he not at ease in his studies recently, and he is not focused in class?"
"Mom, how do you know? Did the teacher call you? " Daughter stopped chewing, turned to stare at Xiao Tong asked.
"No? ! "Xiao Tong felt that she had screwed up. "His mother called me today and said that he had recently ..."
"What did his mother say?" Small mushroom head big eyes staring at Xiao Tong.
"His mother said he carved your initials on his arm. Baby, what's wrong with you?" Xiao Tong felt that his voice had obviously improved.
"mom! I don't care what he wants! I didn't let him carve it! " The daughter said eagerly, with tears in her eyes.
"Baby, what are you crying about? Puppy love is actually nothing, puppy love ... "
"Mom, I don't have puppy love. That's his own imagination. I really didn't ... meowed. " Before Xiao Tong could tell her what she had prepared, her daughter was already crying.
"Then why are you crying? Mom is chatting with you, why are you crying? " Xiao Tong was annoyed that he didn't foresee this situation.
My lover, who has been listening in the living room, finally came in.
"Baby, don't cry, talk to your father, and your mother will know how to get angry." The lover winked at Xiao Tong as he spoke, so Xiao Tong had to go out.
"Dad, my mother knows that she is wrong. I am not in love with Li Jiayu at all. Why the fuck are you looking for my mother? " The little mushroom has been crying.
The daughter told her lover the total zero zero of Li Jiayu, her deskmate. She also said that she would like to play with boys, because most female students are very picky and narrow-minded. I didn't expect Li Jiayu to be wrong. She also said that she was very sad these two days and had told the teacher to change seats.
The lover hardly speaks, occasionally utters a compliment, and always listens to his daughter.
At some point, the daughter has calmed down, and Xiao Tong, sitting in the living room, can't help but admire her lover's patience.
"Baby, mom was worried just now, because of the danger of puppy love ..." After hearing what her lover said, Xiao Tong felt that this guy seemed to have done his homework.
Then the lover also talked about what to pay attention to when getting along with boys, and so on. After listening to her daughter's reaction, she felt that the father and daughter had a good talk and Xiao Tong was relaxed.
The lover gently closed the door and walked out of her daughter's room. Xiao Tong gave him a thumbs-up sign, and his lover laughed softly at Xiao Tong's inability to do ideological work. The two agreed to call Li Jiayu's mother tomorrow, saying that they had already talked with the children, and they would also advise the teacher to change seats, so as not to affect the children's study and not to mention it in the future.
Xiao Tong, who was in a relaxed mood, suddenly remembered Li Jiayu's mother's words: What courage it takes to carve words on your wrist and run around the playground ... What courage it takes to carve words on your wrist! Running around like crazy, using your brain to make up pictures, is quite touching. I will discuss it with my daughter when she grows up. In fact, there is such a boy ... what kind of mother are you? Really!
Thinking about thinking about Xiao Tong himself laughed.
Chapter 10 of the 90-day challenge camp in the University Hall