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1. What if children don't like to study?
In fact, children's dislike of learning has a lot to do with our current teaching model. At home, parents always want their children to succeed, but they often take academic performance as an indicator and are extremely strict with their children's learning requirements. In school, it is exam-oriented education, and there are many subjects. Children can finish their homework very late every day. In this case, which child will be willing to study?
We can't change the learning mode, but we can stay at home. What we need to do at home is not to burden our children, but to help them cultivate their interest in learning.
Interest is the biggest motivation for children to learn, and they are not interested because they have not found the fun of learning. Parents should find out their children's favorite subjects and encourage them to learn this subject well. So as to find out why children like this subject, and then use it in other subjects to cultivate children's interest.
When appropriate, parents should play dumb. For example, if you pretend you don't know something, and then your child tells the answer, you can encourage and praise your cleverness, make your child feel confident, and then encourage him to study better in the future.
Never say that children are stupid. Although the child is young, he has strong self-esteem. Children should be given more encouragement to enhance their self-confidence.
Second, the reasons why children don't like learning
There are no children born to love learning, and there are no children born not to love learning. There must be a reason. Let's see why children don't like learning.
1, the study burden is too heavy.
Nowadays, parents have high expectations for their children and are very concerned about their academic performance, which makes their children's mental stress more and more serious. Children with poor learning quality often find it difficult to finish their homework well and need to work overtime. Even so, their grades are still average, so they feel heavy ideological burden and preoccupied all day. If children with better grades relax and can't deal with some problems in their daily study and life, they will easily fall behind in the fierce study competition and have a psychological burden.
2. Poor learning adaptability.
Students' learning adaptability is poor, which affects their mood swings, showing nervousness and anxiety. There are many reasons for children's poor adaptability to psychological learning, the most important of which are psychological factors and environmental factors.
The change of learning environment is a realistic problem that children cannot avoid. There are also many children who encounter psychological difficulties because of their lack of adaptability. Compared with primary schools, the dominant position of junior high school teachers is reduced, mainly by children's autonomy. Some children's autonomy can't be exerted for a while, which will lead to a decline in academic performance. When children adapt, their academic performance will rise again. But some children can't adjust well and their grades can't be improved. Causes children to have psychological pressure and think that they are incapable of success. They can't avoid failure or pursue success, resulting in a sense of loss and powerlessness. This phenomenon is called "learned helplessness Sense". Under the control of this feeling, I don't want to try again and fall into the vicious circle of "failure-lack of ability-sense of loss-reduced performance"
Third, the performance of children who don't like learning
It is a headache for parents that children don't like learning, but this is not the beginning, but caused by some reasons. Therefore, when parents find that their children have the following performances, they should pay more attention to guiding their children and help them regain their interest in learning.
1, avoid learning. Some children are obviously unwilling to go to school directly. And some children, even if they go to school, are unwilling to learn and muddle along. No ambition, no expectation, no desire for knowledge and progress.
2. Pay attention to dispersion. Lack of learning motivation will distract attention, divert interest and be easily disturbed by various internal and external factors. Therefore, they are interested in things other than study, spend time, and often usurp the role of master and reverse their priorities.
3. Boredom and indifference. If you don't take the initiative to do your homework when you go home, even if you do it, it will be sloppy. It is often done under the strong supervision of parents.
4. Lack of self-esteem and self-confidence. I don't care about my academic performance, I don't care about my poor test, and I'm not ashamed.
5. Learning without goals and plans. Going to school is just an explanation for parents, not voluntary at all. Coping with school, no learning goals, no plans.
Fourth, children don't like learning how to educate.
How should children be educated if they don't like learning? Parents' attitude plays a key role, and beating and cursing often make things worse. How should parents educate correctly?
No one likes learning by nature, and no one hates learning by nature. There must be a reason for not loving learning, and the correct guidance of parents is very important.
Parents need to communicate with their children more and understand their inner world. Only in this way can we know their inner thoughts. At the same time, you can try to cultivate children's interest, which is the motivation for learning. At the same time, some rewards and severe measures are necessary. The method of combining rigidity with softness is more effective.