People are so hard, I win by soft, I use skills, I feel with my heart, and I make people angry. What am I arguing with reason?

Explain sentence by sentence: When others are powerful and always aggressive, I will use soft methods to overcome them. (Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching: "The softest person in the world is the firm one in the world." When others play politics with intrigue, I will influence him with my heart; When others are angry, I will reason with him, convince others and let him calm his anger and resentment. The "soft approach" mentioned earlier is to seek a way to ease and weaken, not to show weakness. This wisdom has always been used in diplomacy, such as the attitude of the South China Sea towards the United States and its military attitude, including human life. When others are too strong and your ability is weak, you have to deal with it slowly. In Mao Zedong's "On Protracted War", "The enemy retreats and advances, and the enemy is tired and disturbed. . . "Tactics, the essence, is also the best interpretation.