2. Let go of your inherent thoughts and always face the people and things you face every day with a positive attitude. Here, I want to share a story with you: an old monk and a young monk were traveling in the square. They met a river and saw a woman trying to cross it, but she was afraid to cross it. The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the river, then put the woman down and continued on his way with the young monk. The young monk couldn't help muttering all the way, "What happened to Master? Dare to carry a woman across the river? " Thinking all the way, I finally couldn't help it and said, "Master, have you broken the rules?" How to carry a woman? " The old monk sighed, "I have put it down, but you still can't let it go!" " "The story tells the truth, and the word" put down "is easy to understand. It's an understatement, but it contains fear. It wants to promote rationality and restrain rationality. Only by understanding with your heart can you realize the realm of "color is empty, and empty is color" and get rid of the shackles of life and death and the entanglement of pain. Toto Fuller said, "Memory is like a wallet. If you put too much, it won't close, and everything inside will fall out. "If a person is always obsessed with fame and fortune, how can it be easy? How can you be happy when you are always trapped by grievances? Always disturbed by gossip, where is the breeze and bright moon? Only by letting go of the past, staying away from the temptation of fame and fortune, avoiding the troubles of love and hate, and being indifferent to the invasion of rumors can we make room for the soul and put more surprises and touches.
3. Let go of your age. Communicating with people depends on the interviewee. The teacher talks to the students. If they want to enter the hearts of students, they should communicate like brothers and sisters. Parents must not say when talking to their children: I eat more salt than you eat; If I have crossed more bridges than you have, then let go of my age and the frequency of being with my children.
4. Break through, break your inherent behavior habits, and ask yourself to change a little bad habits toward your goal every day.