My boyfriend and I are engaged, and the real estate license says the man, but we are required to repay the loan together before marriage?

There are many examples around me about this problem. The house bought by the man's family loan insisted on not writing the woman's name and asked the woman to repay the loan together. First of all, the house is a destination in the eyes of China people, and it is a sense of security as an act. If the man chooses to marry this girl, he should give the other person this sense of security. Insisting on not writing the girl's name on the real estate license is nothing more than leaving a way out for himself, fearing that one day he will not survive and the woman will divide his property. Secondly, since we will get married, the property after marriage is * * * and property, so whether the man pays the loan himself or two people together, it is * * * and property. I think it's unfair. Since the man chooses not to add the woman's name, the woman has no obligation to help the man repay the loan.

Many boys are filled with indignation when this question is raised. Since you love me and choose to marry me, why can't you help me share some? But then again, since you love that girl so much, why don't you even dare to give her a promise? Many girls want to add their names to the real estate license just to seek a sense of security. In their hearts, they will feel that this is my own home, not dependent on others, and will not be kicked out of the house when quarreling.

There are also some boys who say that you don't have to help me repay the loan, I will bear it myself. But as I said before, since we are married, the money earned after marriage should belong to two people. To some extent, you are invisibly letting girls share this debt with you. After marriage, girls have to do housework, have children, take care of children, and even go out to work to earn money. Facing the aging face and flabby skin, they are also worried about their husbands' cheating. Isn't it harder than boys? Isn't all this enough for boys to give girls a lifelong commitment?