Yao Yao told me in high spirits that she was engaged. Married to her boyfriend of two years. Her parents are both city dwellers, and his parents are very kind to her.
Out of concern, I asked Yao Yao where she was going to buy a house. She didn't like the place where she lived. Yao Yao said that although she comes from the countryside, her parents have made a lot of money in vegetable greenhouses in recent years. She was going to buy a house with half the money, but her boyfriend didn't agree, so she had to buy it in full, so Yao Yao didn't intervene in the house. She can only comment on where to buy a house, but she can't make a decision.
I didn't say anything after listening. After all, two people live alone, so I'd better stay out of it. But when I thought about it carefully, I thought it was wrong, so I asked whose name was written on the real estate license in Yao Yao. Yao Yao said it belonged to her parents-in-law. At that time, I felt that this family was guarding Yao Yao, but Yao Yao didn't think so. She feels that she has no money to buy a house anyway, and even if something really happens in the future, she will not suffer. Yao Yao doesn't listen to advice, and there's nothing I can do. I would rather tear down the temple than the marriage.
Then, something even more outrageous came.
After breaking up, Yao Yao told me all this. Talking about the specific matters of marriage, the man said that because the family bought a house in full and didn't have that much money, the bride price could only be given at most 20 thousand. Yao Yao felt very wronged at that time. Although the bride price was for outsiders to see, the number of the bride price really proved how much her husband's family valued themselves, but Yao Yao didn't say much when she thought that they would live alone in the future.
The real reason why Yao Yao broke up was that the man gave Yao Yao a list, which listed in detail what Yao Yao needed to prepare before getting married: house decoration, furniture and appliances, even pots and pans, and finally100000 wedding preparation reserve fund, which added up to at least 400000! The man only wants 400,000 Yao Yao and 20,000 bride price!
The Yao Yao family got angry on the spot. It's not that they can't afford the money. They just think that this man has been plotting against Yao Yao and Yao Yao. If they really get divorced in the future, who wants to take these things away? Yao Yao cursed angrily, "Are you crazy about money? I can't get the money, but you don't deserve it! " Yao Yao's reaction was amazing.
The most important thing for two people to live together is sincerity. If both sides can't trust each other, there is no need to be together.