But we can't always judge a book by its cover. Next, I'll get back to the topic first, and then start with my understanding of Heaven, and analyze why the most powerful role in this drama is Feng Shijie instead of Ding Yuanying.
1, the problem itself
Why is Ouyang angry? In fact, this anger accurately describes her, relatively simple, without too much scheming. As she mentioned many times, I only run a restaurant, and I am not interested in anything else. Because of simplicity, she doesn't think too much, but only sees superficial things (eating together, dragging her feet, leaving a room full of people, she must be angry)
The person invited by Rui, if you have seen this clip, you will know that the person she invited actually came prepared, that is, came? Humiliate? Look at this mysterious figure Ding Yuanying. As a result, after three strokes, everyone found that he was no match at all. What's wrong with the ink there Let's go before it gets more embarrassing.
The subject said that those people left in anger, but I don't think so. I think they did it on purpose, just like Lu killed Kansai and knew he was dead. He also shouted, get up, you bastard, play dead and run. In fact, the routine is the same, so leave yourself time to leave.
2, the problem extension, personal opinion
Besides, when it comes to heaven, I believe many people admire Ding Yuanying, and even many people call him? Master? In fact, many people have given this play a screen name: Ding Yuanying.
Ding Yuanying's portrayal is really good, both from the perspective of businessmen and from the depth of thinking, giving people an unattainable position. These are things that we ordinary people will never learn. Playing private equity, laying out the overall situation, having no experience, energy and brains, has nothing to do with us ordinary people.
But I want to say that there is a tallest person in heaven, not small, not Rui, nor, but Feng Shijie of the village. Why do you say that? Let's analyze it.
First of all, Ye Xiaoming, a fellow stereo enthusiast, told him that Ding Yuanying was a master. When Feng Shijie contacted Ding Yuanying, he began to implement his plan, approached him and asked him to help Wang Miao Village. When the company was in crisis, Feng Shijie said that he came into contact with Ding Yuanying purposefully, from deliberately finding fault, to inviting him to be a guest at home, and then to making him a production base in the village.
And Feng Shijie is a smart man. Why do you say that? From the beginning, when he wanted to do something for the people in Wang Miao village, he found that his purpose was clear: to make more money for the villagers. Therefore, he always thinks about farmers' problems in times of crisis or weak sales, just like when he finally withdraws his shares, he transfers the village account to his own name and leaves all the money on the core equipment. Clear goals are the most important part of our work.
3. The most reliable counterattack method for ordinary people
How do ordinary people fight back? How can we achieve class leap? In fact, it is too difficult, because in most cases, it is not because our hearts are not eager enough, but because our minds and minds are not open.
Why do you say that? Because our environment and family have a great influence on our mind and thinking. If we can't open our minds, we can't escape the thinking limitations of the older generation of children. Speaking of which, it reminds me of a documentary about class counterattack, out? Road ",this play depicts three people, three from? Hierarchy? Break the way children live in different families. This documentary lasted for six years and followed three children to find their own breakthrough in life.
1, Ma comes from Gansu, deep in the mountains.
Ma came from the depths of the mountains in 2009 and stayed at home until he was ten years old. After repeated lobbying by the principal, she finally went to a primary school with only five students.
Ma wrote in his diary: I'm going to Beijing to go to college and earn 1000 a month to buy noodles for my family, because I'm always hungry and I have to dig a water cellar.
Then Ma 20 12 dropped out of school, and his father said: Every girl will get married sooner or later, as long as she has enough knowledge, not to mention going to work when she goes to college, and going to work when she doesn't. Sooner or later, you have to work. You might as well work early. ?
I don't want to go out to work because I am too young. I stayed in my hometown for several years, married my cousin 20 14 at home, and worked in my own ceramic factory after marriage.
You can't cross the class just by walking out of the mountains, because you are poor, so you have no choice.
2. Joe, a repeat student in Hubei Senior Three.
In 2009, Joe began the third college entrance examination in his life. Two years ago, my father drove his relatives' big trucks, and even people and cars fell down the mountain. Since then, their family's life has been even more difficult.
In order to realize his father's last wish, he started the third college entrance examination. In his words, it is a glorious thing to be admitted to our university there. He failed in the previous two college entrance examinations. During the preparation for the third college entrance examination, he rushed to school before dawn every day and reviewed in front of a mountain of desks.
Finally, this time he was admitted to Hubei University of Technology.
Desperate to make money to subsidize the family, 20 12 juniors began to submit resumes, but there was no feedback. After many twists and turns, I finally put myself. Sell? Get out.
Then start working step by step, get married and have children. Now that he has bought his own house and car in Wu Hanyou, it seems that he has really come out of a poor rural youth. Perhaps it is the truest portrayal of many young people.
3. Beijing, Yuan Hanhan
Her father is engaged in real estate business, and she studied all kinds of art, dance, piano and fine arts since childhood. In the end, she entered the Central American high school that many people wanted to go to, but in 2009, she made a simple decision: drop out.
After dropping out of school, she wants to open a small bar on the street at a rent of 2w a year. Even no one in the family thinks that her career can succeed, because she doesn't expect her to succeed. The director asked her mother why she had to give her 2w dollars to lose water. Finally, my mother said: just pay the tuition.
Sure enough, the small bar soon closed down.
However, she can go abroad to study for a master's degree in art and graduate from 20 12. Back in Beijing, she registered an art investment company and became CEO herself. Of course, her parents' consciousness is the same as her opening a small bar this time, and they don't expect her career and success. He just likes it.
That is the reality. Maybe our desperation for the final destination is just the starting point for some people. Shouldn't we work hard? Of course not. If we give up, our children will never get out of this predicament.
Three people, or three levels, are told through this documentary.
For people like Malik Bai Juan, she has no choice at all, because she is poor and her parents have poor ideas. If she doesn't study, she will work, and if she studies, she will just work. So why study? This is her father's point of view. So she will never leave that small mountain village, which means she has no choice.
Joe, whose family is also poor, has a good environment, and his father just wants him to go to college. Some people say that the university he was admitted to is not still working as usual? Yes, but he took root in Wuhan from poverty and even touched the border of the middle class, which was enough to make his mother feel gratified and stand upright in the village.
Yuan Hanhan, he said, a person cannot starve to death unless he really wants to die. Yes, it is rare to see people starve to death in this society now, but you live in a villa and I live in a small bungalow. Under the pressure of not being able to live, she pursues a kind of self-life, which is Maslow's spiritual pursuit.
Why do you say so many ordinary people's counterattacks? I just want to tell us three suggestions about values, especially ordinary people:
1, reducing error cost:
We can't do whatever we want like Yuan Hanhan, because we want to live. Even if her small bar failed, she dropped out of school and could go abroad to study for a master's degree in the future. Only by reducing the cost of trial and error can ordinary people develop better. Remember what we said above, why is Feng Shijie a master? His goal is clear, that is to lead the villagers in Wang Miao Village out of poverty.
In real life, people like Yuan Hanhan and Ma are still a minority, and most of them are young people in small towns like Joe. Adhere to the college entrance examination for three years, work hard in one direction, and buy a house in Wuhan. Switching goals back and forth is the most exhausting thing for individuals.
2. Accumulation of resources and contacts:
Ordinary people want to achieve a counterattack and want to make great progress. How easy is it without resources and contacts? So after we enter the workplace, we must pay attention to this point together. Will you accumulate a certain number of contacts and resources after working in a certain industry for three to five years?
For example, an uncle of mine in a first-tier city is like that. He is smart and reliable, and he has won the favor of leaders after working for a long time. Later, the leader invited him to join the company and registered him as the general manager. Of course, this kind of thing can't be encountered, but if you don't pay attention to the accumulation of these resources at ordinary times, but keep jumping back and forth and changing industries, for a long time, you can't find your own skills at all, and it is difficult to find high-end contacts and resources in the industry. The best way for the ordinary class is. Seeking stability? , reduce the cost of trial and error.
3, the improvement of personal ability:
To put it bluntly, if you want to get promoted or attend classes months ago, you must improve your personal ability as the basis. Resources and contacts are very important, but if our personal abilities are not good, even if we are given funds and contacts, it is difficult to maximize their value.
These three core viewpoints must be remembered and are also the pointers to guide us forward.
In addition to the above-mentioned indicators, we also need to make plans for ourselves, put them into action and put them in place.
1, direction selection:
This step determines whether we can achieve a key point in the future. Why? There is an old saying: if you are in the wrong direction, your efforts will be in vain. Make a concrete evaluation of us personally, to what extent I can do it, and why it is me, not others. Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle.
2. Planning:
Many people are still planning for themselves for three years, five years or even ten years. This is actually very dangerous, because the change is too fast. Looking at the next decade from the present perspective is actually very unreliable. We only need to choose a long-term development direction through the first point.
Then we began to make our implementation plan, which should be constant, such as one-year plan and half-year plan, and should be quantified. For example, I want to save 20w this year, what technology should I learn this year, and what standards should I meet. Only this specific plan can be implemented, and then it can be further decomposed, such as monthly plan, weekly plan and so on. The more detailed, the easier it is to achieve.
Step 3 resist temptation
Why do you say that? Because there are too many ways to make money and do business now, all kinds of publicity are dazzling. So look for your own direction, and then try to make your own plans, and don't be disturbed by the temptation of the outside world.
Through the suggestions of the above three values and the implementation steps of the three plans, I believe it will definitely give you some inspiration. In addition, a word that always comes to mind, class transition, is actually difficult to tell the truth. As an ordinary person, it takes more time to realize this. It may take generations of efforts. Is it really impossible for us to achieve it quickly?
Of course there is, that is, learning from Feng Shijie's way of life, linking up with awesome people, having a firm goal, and letting powerful people work for us? Used? . Why do you put quotation marks here? Because in heaven, Feng Shijie said: Ding Ge, this matter has always been in my heart. I approached and deliberately found fault. In fact, I have my own idea, that is, let you work for our Wang Miao village and lead our Wang Miao village out of poverty. ?
Anything that wants to go long-term still depends on quality. If you think that contacting cattle people is to get close to them without asking for anything in return, it will definitely not be realized, and the most important thing is that your behavior may cause others' disgust and discomfort, leading others to leave you.
We have seen too many teenagers who achieve their goals by packaging. It's really hard for ordinary people to counterattack without real kung fu. It is more difficult for people to achieve wealth by opportunism and so-called luck than to be struck by lightning. How can we hope for this?
Look for a direction and stick to it for a long time. If you can't do it in one year, then work for two years, and two years will not reach ten years. If you have such courage and courage in doing things, it is difficult to succeed.