Guoguo is pregnant.
After three years of marriage, I finally got pregnant with 1. Guo Guo, who is almost 30 years old, be careful, everything is not easy.
For some people, getting pregnant is a very easy thing, but for Guoguo, she went through a year of pregnancy preparation, a year of conditioning and took countless Chinese medicines. After numerous setbacks and hopes, she finally got pregnant with this child.
Because the baby didn't come easily, when the news of pregnancy diagnosis came from the doctor's mouth, the fruit was so excited that she burst into tears at that moment.
This kind of emotion, probably really only experienced, pregnant people will understand.
Fortunately, after so much suffering, fate has been taking care of her, giving her the opportunity to be a mother and giving her an angel baby.
After 42 days of pregnancy, Guoguo found some signs of bleeding. She immediately called her husband in the company, who immediately drove her to the hospital.
I went to the hospital for a check-up, and the situation was not too serious. The doctor said I should stay in bed 1 week, and we'll see. I shouldn't be tired and walk less.
The fruit has started. On the day I stayed in bed for a week, I also asked for leave from the company. No one at home took care of her, and her husband offered to take care of her mother-in-law.
If Guo Guo agreed, her husband would leave early and return late, and no one would take care of him at home. She can buy food, cook, do housework and wash clothes. All these things need help.
02.
My mother-in-law came, but she didn't want to come. She doesn't want to take care of Guoguo, and she doesn't want to take care of this wife.
Even before Guoguo got pregnant, she had leaked the news. Although she is a mother-in-law, she has no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law, so Guoguo won't help her.
This time, the fruit has to protect the fetus, and the son is also anxious to get bad. He begged his mother-in-law for a long time before she was willing to take care of the fruit for a week.
It's fine during the day. After the mother-in-law cooked the meal, she went outside to chat with the old man and danced square dance at night.
In the evening, my son came back and saw his son carrying fruit seriously. Everything is for fruit, and even dinner is served by his son on the fruit bed. When the fruit wants to drink water, the son immediately falls down.
My mother-in-law doesn't like this. She felt that her hard-working son had never served herself like this, and her mother-in-law was unbalanced. Did you raise your eldest son so that he could serve women?
When the son enters the bedroom to help the fruit, the mother-in-law will sarcastically say, "How hard it was for us to be women at that time. There is no such thing as protecting the fetus. We have been working in the fields until the day when we gave birth to our children. You are so melodramatic now. "
When my son heard his mother say such a thing, he stopped at once. Because the doctor said that pregnant women's emotions are also very important, don't make her angry or excited. Pregnant women can only have a good baby if they are happy and calm.
The son pushed his mother-in-law out of the room and immediately comforted his wife. Guoguo doesn't care at all. She knows that her mother-in-law speaks badly, and now that she has a child, there is no need to be angry with her.
03.
A week later, the bleeding stopped, and I went to the hospital for reexamination. The doctor said everything was fine.
Knowing that her daughter-in-law was safe, her mother-in-law clamored to go back. The fruit suddenly got pregnant again.
Some pregnant mothers throw up after eating, and the fruit situation is particularly serious. I vomit when I drink water, eat food and eat fruit, and I feel that something can't get into my stomach. As long as you go in, you have to spit it out to be comfortable.
In this case, if you can't go to work at all, you can only continue to ask for leave from the leader. She can't smell the oil smoke and can't cook by herself at all. She vomited as soon as she entered the kitchen.
The husband had no choice but to put in a good word with his mother, hoping that she would stay and continue to take care of the fruit.
My father-in-law also called me, hoping that the old woman would stay at her son's house and take good care of her daughter-in-law. After all, she is pregnant with our grandson.
My mother-in-law doesn't listen to anyone, especially her father-in-law, clamoring to leave and settle down with peace of mind.
Mother-in-law cooks several meals a day for fruit. Although her mother-in-law occasionally says something that makes people listen to her heart, she knows that her husband is really good to herself.
So no matter what her mother-in-law says, the fruit will tell herself that she must be happy and have a happy baby.
04.
Starting from 6 months, Guoguo's feet began to swell slowly. As the belly gets bigger and bigger, the situation of swollen feet becomes more and more serious.
It is said that pregnant women should take regular walks and exercise, which is good for both the fetus and the pregnant mother. She can't leave if there are special circumstances. She felt uncomfortable as soon as she stood up. It may be because the fetus is too big, and it is particularly blocked in her stomach, making it difficult to breathe.
Most of the time, Guoguo is lying in bed, and her mother-in-law is busy. Guoguo also wants to help her mother-in-law, but in fact, pregnancy makes her very uncomfortable.
From the beginning of swollen fruit feet, at night, her husband washed her feet with foot washing water and helped her wash her feet.
The mother-in-law was unhappy when she saw her son bathing her daughter-in-law. She didn't know that Guoguo couldn't bend down to wash her feet because her stomach was too big, so she had to ask her husband for help.
That day, as usual, my son took a basin of warm water to soak his wife's feet. My mother-in-law just came out of the kitchen. She saw her son who waited on his daughter-in-law like a nanny. She said angrily, "Son, it's a shame that a man washes his daughter-in-law's feet and also helps his daughter-in-law."
The son explained to his mother: "If pregnancy is very hard now, she can't bend over and can't wash it at all. Only I can help her wash it. "
My mother-in-law said bitterly, "It's just melodramatic. At that time, we didn't suffer, and men helped you wash your feet? " You want to be beautiful, we help men wash their feet, so what if they are pregnant? We also work to wait on men. "
The son said, "mom, times are different now." Now your daughter-in-law is precious and your grandson is precious. "
Well, when her son said this, her mother-in-law was speechless and shook her head angrily and left. Her son doesn't know how to repent, and there is nothing she can do.
However, Guoguo's husband really has nothing to say to her and will adjust the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law would also protect her wife.
Isn't that what women want?
There is such a passage in "Have a Daughter": I long to be collected, properly placed and carefully preserved all my life, so as not to surprise me and wander around, with no branches to follow. But that man, I know, I always knew, he would never come.
Such a man should be a woman's ultimate dream.
Guoguo is lucky to have married a man who is willing to protect her. This is rare. After all, too many men can't understand that their wives are pregnant.
Not everyone is as lucky as Guoguo.
Mother-in-law is really difficult to get along with, and will say something excessive, but there is such a person who is willing to protect her husband, regardless of her mother-in-law's excesses.
Because she clearly pointed out that the mother-in-law is the mother-in-law and the husband is the husband, as long as the husband is good to himself.
There is a kind of woman who is particularly stupid. In fact, the husband is not bad to himself, but the mother-in-law is not good to herself. Women will blame their husbands. Of course, if your husband doesn't protect you, you can count him in.
But your husband is willing to protect you, her mother-in-law is strong, her husband is willing to help you, and she blames her mother-in-law for being bad to herself and living a bad life. This is a woman who can't live, and she can't get rid of it.
This kind of woman will feel unhappy when she marries the best man.
A smart woman should learn from the fruits, as long as her husband is kind to herself and protects herself.
No matter how reluctant the mother-in-law is, in fact, she has not done less to help.