The other party replies to you, I hope you can listen, how to reply.

You can reply like this: as long as you are willing to listen, I will only tell you one person, and you can help me analyze it from another angle.

Only if you really want to talk to him about it can you reply like this. If you don't want to, then reply to me in another way: you are willing to listen, I don't want to talk. Let me bear the trouble alone.