One of my colleagues and her ex-husband met in college, and they both belonged to the same college. Later (her husband's surname is Cao, and we all call him older than him) began to chase after my colleague (Xiao Zhang) and became boyfriend and girlfriend without extension.
Not long after graduation, Xiao Zhang got pregnant and then they got married. Married life was good at first, and they were very loving. Later, Xiao Zhang left her job because of pregnancy (she has been working for about half a year).
In this way, the burden of the family falls on Ronaldinho, but because there is not much economic expenditure, the overall life is not bad. However, with the arrival of children, the expenses of the whole family have soared, and Ronaldinho's income seems to be somewhat stretched.
With the increase of family burden, there will be more quarrels between the two people, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker in the quarrel. Later, in order to ease this disharmonious relationship between husband and wife, Xiao Zhang returned to work in the company and handed over the children to his parents. Ronaldinho's parents don't want to take care of their children. As for the specific reasons, Xiao Zhang didn't say)
This method really worked, but it didn't last long. Ronaldinho was dismissed by the company. Ronaldinho didn't tell Xiao Zhang the reason for his dismissal, but everyone guessed that it must be his carelessness in work, because he often asked for leave from the company.
Unemployed Ronaldinho stays at home all day playing games, and then chats with the opposite sex network. One day, Xiao Zhang said a few words to him. No one expected that Ronaldinho would attack Xiao Zhang for this matter. At that time, Xiao Zhang was disheartened and wanted to divorce Ronaldinho, but her family advised her to think more about her children. In the end, she chose to compromise.
After taking office, Ronaldinho found another job, but was soon dismissed by the company. After being dismissed, Ronaldinho returned to the "old style" and stayed at home to play games all day. If you go out and drink with others. Once they got drunk and had a fight. Ronaldinho hit Xiao Zhang again and took her to the hospital with a slight concussion.
After this incident, Xiao Zhang will never listen to his family's words of "forbearance for children" again. She finally chose to divorce, found a new home last year, and is now living well.
Therefore, in case of domestic violence, we must not compromise and resolutely safeguard our legitimate rights and interests. Concession will only make the perpetrators more unscrupulous and bring more harm to themselves.