In this matter, the boy's behavior is undoubtedly wrong, but if the mother accuses the child in public, or ignores the child's behavior, it is not good for the child's growth. This mother's practice deserves praise. When the child made a mistake, the mother was not angry, and directly insulted the child in public. Instead, she calmly told the child that this behavior was wrong. In addition to admitting his mistakes, he also needs to pay for his actions. Now he is too young to make money, so the mother is responsible for the compensation for these damaged bananas, and the child needs to apologize to the shopkeeper.
Through his mother's words and deeds, I believe that the boy will remember this matter firmly, and he will have a sense of responsibility in his children's hearts. In the future, he is not afraid of making mistakes, let alone taking responsibility, whether in study or life. This kind of subtle education is the most effective and easily accepted by children, but in real life, few parents can do this. Most parents will yell at their children again and again when things happen, while evading responsibility, or are unwilling to pay the bill in the eyes of the store. Others think that children are still young. These are all unconscious actions, so don't care too much. When they grow up, they won't be like this. The former will make children have a fear of making mistakes, and may choose to escape for fear of being scolded in the future. The latter may make children have a wrong consciousness and think that what they are doing is right.
It can be seen that parents' educational concept is very important to children, and the way parents treat problems directly affects the formation of children's behavioral logic. That is to say, parents are children's mirrors, and parents need to make a good start if they want their children to develop in a good direction. Besides, family education is very important. It is much better for children to receive information in a calm mood than in a crying state.