What's the truth behind this?
1, control: "Now you are my man"
At first, Xu Cunzi's son also liked Jiang Xibao and wanted to invite him out to play. Xu Cunzi said to Xibao, "You should know how to deal with him."
Xibao said, "But he is your son."
"What's the difference?" He asked, "Get rid of him." He paused. "Now you are my man."
It can be seen from this sentence that Xu has a strong desire for control, his personality is not weak at all, and his style is not sloppy.
As a man who has worked hard in business all the year round and has great wealth, he must be very resourceful, uncompromising and decisive.
In Xu Cunzi's eyes, Xibao is just a "famous painting" he bought. He controlled her, tamed her with money, and left her in the cold if he said something wrong. Naturally, it is different from the ordinary foster relationship for the sake of flesh or lust in the secular market. The requirements for Xu Cunzi are obviously higher, and the whole person should be controlled.
2. Fear of old age: "I dare not take off my clothes in front of you."
As an intellectual woman who pursues equal status, she was left out in the cold, but her body "derailed" Denise Ruan, a student of Cambridge University, as revenge. Then, she was depressed for three weeks, until one night, Xu Cunzi sneaked into Xibao's room, and there was a chat between them about "why not share my room", and Xu Cunzi confessed his thoughts.
After Xu Cunzi sneaked into Xibao's room, he said, "I want to see if you are sleeping in your room." This is of course his excuse. He has all the movements of Xibao, including her and Dennis Ruan.
Xu Cunzi calmly said to Xibao, "Since ancient times, young girls have never been loyal to rich old men."
He is so calm because what he cares about is not the body of young girls at all, but their exuberant vitality.
As long as he conquered the ambitious girl's surging desire for the world and her own life, he conquered the most wonderful things in the world and made him feel his youth and vitality.
People are naturally fond of performing, and Xibao is the best audience.
Because of his different cognition, he was in a high position in the transaction between Xu Cunzi and all the girls (he knew his purpose from the beginning, and all the girls only knew that he was kept, but they didn't know Xu Cunzi's purpose).
Among these girls, Xibao is the cleverest, with personality and thinking, so she is also the most favored girl in the same type.
Xu Cunzi was hospitalized for a heart attack. After the crisis, Song Siming had a talk with Xibao. Song Siming asked Xibao why she didn't leave since she had enough money to go to school in Cambridge.
Xibao replied that it's not just for money now, he is the only person in the world who loves me.
Song Siming has seen through this. He shook his head and said to Xibao, "You don't understand human nature. People like to perform. You are the best audience. You even know how to choose a fortress. He won't spend money recklessly. Your taste satisfies him. "
For Xu Cunzi, who has both brains and experience, ordinary girls naturally cannot enter his eyes. He once took an early morning walk with Xibao. Xibao asked him, "Do you have many women?" Xu Cunzi replied, "No, I don't have many women. I feel strange, too. Don't you think all women are the same? "
And Xibao is a very special woman. When dealing with her, let her be her own audience-understand his cultivation and knowledge, appreciate his taste and demeanor, and understand his worries and concerns ... Xibao is the best audience among young girls, and being with her is to let her know and appreciate him, not just to share a room with her for physical lust.
As the famous screenwriter Liao Yimei said, "It is not uncommon to meet love and sex in our life. What is rare is to meet understanding. " Everyone is lonely, and everyone is eager to have a partner-to accompany, appreciate and understand each other.