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Release time:19-04-10/5:15 Quanzhou Hong Wen Technology Co., Ltd.
"Human beings are both powerful and weak, both humble and noble, and they can have insights and often turn a blind eye." -Diderot
A family is a big family, because time is endless, so people are also living with time. However, rulers have their own strengths and weaknesses, and people are different. In addition to his innate character, his later living environment also changed them. So some people will inevitably have some difficult relatives at home. Although it is best for people to help each other, support each other and move forward step by step.
But if people live to 50 years old and meet these four kinds of relatives, it is better to stay away.
1 I feel like an uncle who owes money and only borrows money without paying it back.
"If you want to make enemies, you must lend him money first, and then ask him for it." anonymous
After discovering that money is a good thing, many people have become realistic. Even pure love feelings, once mixed with money interests, this kind of feelings will be destroyed sooner or later.
Moreover, among many relatives, there will always be such a person. They may be unhappy in life, but they don't know they are trying. All they know is that they keep borrowing money from people around them.
If it is a temporary disaster, such people borrow money just for a change of living environment, and feel like an uncle after owing money. He only knows how to borrow money, but he is unwilling to pay it back.
2 petty and calculating, only thinking about relatives who take advantage of others.
"The wicked are bold, the villain is successful, and the gentleman is great." -"A Record of the Song Dynasty, the Sunnah of the Garden Ancestors"
One's personality determines one's life. Some people are naturally narrow-minded and even like to haggle over every ounce in front of relatives. Such people often take advantage of relatives.
Because they are all very familiar people, people clearly know that others will not make moves easily, because they take advantage of this and then turn against each other. Most people are face-saving people. It is this kind of psychology that makes such relatives often take advantage.
Your eyes are above the top and you always look down on other people's relatives.
"Rich and powerful, will know each other. If you have no money, you are not a passerby. " -Meng Jiao
Some relatives, perhaps capable people, may have a better living environment at home than their relatives around them. It is this mentality that makes such people's eyes grow on the top of their heads, think that they are much taller than others, and often look down on their relatives around them.
Even if we get along normally, there will be a feeling that she is above us. She always looks down on this one and that one. This self-styled superiority is really annoying.
Big-mouthed relatives who like to gossip everywhere.
"Welcome people in a friendly way, as close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. " -Guan Zhong
What people say, although the legs are not long, they run faster than anything else. Therefore, among the most annoying relatives, the person with a big mouth should be counted as one. They open their mouths as if they were born to gossip about others.
If one day you don't talk behind your back, maybe this kind of person will feel uncomfortable all over. Be sure to stay away from this kind of person, because being with this kind of person for a long time will easily affect your relationship with other relatives, and the loss will outweigh the gain.
Emotional summary:
Although most of the above relatives know to stay at a respectful distance from others, they may not be able to say it. Because one pen often can't write two books, that's because we are all relatives and friends now and will contact each other frequently. So most people can't stay as far away from them as possible, but they can bear it.