When Yang Xun was stuck for a few seconds, the audience's memory was instantly pulled back to Xiaofeng. In the last movie, if the death of Song Yunhui's sister Song made the audience unhappy, then the separation of Xiao Fenghe must be a pity. At the beginning, two poor people, eager to get married and work hard to earn money, were quite optimistic about their perfect looks. But why did Xiaofeng leave Yang Xun later? Is it really because he is poor, as the tenant said? Looking back at the plot, it is not difficult to find that what really separated them was not Xiaofeng's snobbery and dislike of Yang Xunfu, but another reason.
Xiaofeng is very beautiful, and she is not sissy at all. She grew up from a poor family and grew up with her grandparents, which also developed her diligence, kindness and willingness to endure hardships. These characteristics can be seen when Xiaofeng followed Yang to Jinzhou for the first time. Yang Xun rode a tricycle to meet phoeny, who happily sat in the car with several cans of sauerkraut in her arms. When they arrived in Jinzhou, they cooked and ate by themselves, rented a cheap house and lived frugally, but they were also warm and sweet.
Yang Xun was on a business trip, and Xiaofeng helped watch the counter and did some business. Xiaofeng treats people sincerely. When she went to Yangjia, she bought clothes for his sister and patiently persuaded her younger brother who was obsessed with dropping out of school to do business. I can see that Xiaofeng really wants to live with Yang Xunsheng, and she really makes his family her home. Yang Xun's younger brothers and sisters also like this future sister-in-law. To tell the truth, if Yang Xun can marry Xiaofeng, I think it is a blessing for Yang Xun. Unfortunately, this relationship was intentionally or unintentionally interfered by Yang's mother. It is also because the future mother-in-law is too contemptuous and hurts Xiaofeng's heart.
When Yang Mugang came to Jinzhou, she saw Xiaofeng. In front of her, she began to feel sorry for her son, thinking that because of Xiaofeng, her son had to be wronged and live in the warehouse. She also took her son aside and whispered that Xiaofeng was too beautiful for her to live. In the words, there is contempt for phoeny.
Xiaofeng is very enthusiastic. When I first met my future mother-in-law, I immediately went to the kitchen to cook for her. Xiaofeng entered the kitchen through a door, but she heard her future mother-in-law tell Yang Xun that he was too kind to Xiaofeng and forgot his family. Xiaofeng was shocked at that time. You know, it is instinctive for mother Yang to feel bad about her son as a mother, but she never thought that Xiaofeng is also the daughter and granddaughter of others, so it is necessary for others to feel bad about her because she is so desperate to stay with Yang!
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met for the first time, they had bad blood. After Yang's mother left, Xiaofeng will pack up and go back to the northeast. Yang Xun was smart and wanted to please both sides. He took two thousand yuan to Xiaofeng, saying that her future mother-in-law gave her this daughter-in-law. Xiaofeng was moved at that time and felt that she was wrong about her mother-in-law. Actually, does Xiaofeng really care about the two thousand dollars? Not exactly. Xiaofeng has the ability to do business by herself. For her, this 2,000 yuan reflects the attention of her mother-in-law, which is what she really cares about.
So I went to my future husband's house for the first time. Xiaofeng helped to cook and clean up the kitchen, chatted with Yang's mother, and thanked Yang for giving money. But it is not good to mention it. At the mention of money, Yang's mother immediately changed her face. On the spot, she came to visit Yang. In front of Xiaofeng, she asked him: The family is so poor, why did you give her so much money behind her back? The scene at that time was as embarrassing as Xiaofeng! If it was anyone else, I would have left long ago! Xiaofeng can tolerate eating, but at the dinner table, mother Yang didn't look good from beginning to end. When Xiaofeng left Yang's home visit, her eyes filled with tears. To tell the truth, I can feel her sadness and despair through the screen when I see this. Later, Xiaofeng and Yang Xun were not together.
Xiaofeng and her husband parted ways, and it was hard for people not to contact Yang's mother. She doesn't understand: first of all, whether a daughter-in-law will grow well in the future is not directly related to whether she can survive or not, and whether her character is unreliable. Even if you don't understand this truth, a mother-in-law should not talk about it before and after. In addition, the son is the master of the country, giving money improves the etiquette for the mother. Now that we know, no matter how difficult it is at home, we should not question and object in front of others. This truth, even if you treat your son's ordinary friends, you should give some face!
Moreover, the son is looking for his life partner, not this big family. Sons have the right to choose. Parents can remind you, but don't be too obstructive. Therefore, Xiao Fenghe's separation is largely due to Yang's contempt for her future daughter-in-law as her mother-in-law.
But is the mother-in-law's contempt really the decisive factor for their separation? If this is the case, the girls will have to break up when they meet a mother-in-law like Yang Mu, but it is not. There is another person in the play in the same situation as Xiaofeng. It can even be said that it is despised by her mother-in-law, which is worse than Xiaofeng. This person is Wei Chunhong. She is the restaurant owner that Lei Dongbao met five years after his wife Song died. Wei Chunhong's role in the play is a widow with children.
Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao are familiar with some things. They appreciate each other, help each other, and unconsciously enter each other's hearts. But before they could make it clear, they were strongly obstructed by Dongbao's mother. Wei Chunhong went to their house to find Lei Dongbao. In front of her, her mother Dongbao directly called her "widow, jinx, unlucky!" . However, unlike the separation of Xiaofeng and Yang Xun, Wei Chunhong finally married Lei Dongbao and lived a happy life.
Why phoeny and Yang Xun are separated, but Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao can come together? Is it because Wei Chunhong is better than Xiaofeng, or is she indestructible and can stand the rejection and obstruction of her mother-in-law? The answer is of course not. If we study the plot carefully, we will find that the reason why a woman despised by her mother-in-law can still be with a man is because this man is responsible and responsible.
Lei Dongbao is really willing to do it, and Yang Xun can't compare with him. When Lei Dongbao decided to marry Wei Chunhong, he made up his mind and told his mother when he got home. Mother certainly disagreed. She didn't like this woman at all, saying that Wei Chunhong would never be allowed in unless she died. Lei Dongbao immediately replied, "Mom, I'll build another room. I live with Chunhong." In a word, my mother suddenly choked. After the mother secretly hid the household registration book, Lei Dongbao found someone to re-establish a new household registration book and resolutely carried Wei Chunhong to get the certificate. As long as he follows Lei Dongbao, Wei Chunhong feels practical.
Because of Lei Dongbao's responsibility, her mother-in-law accepted Wei Chunhong after marriage. The marriage between Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao shows that as long as the man is willing to act, no matter how contemptuous and difficult the future mother-in-law is, they can't stop them from entering the road of happy marriage. On the other hand, Xiaofeng and Yang Xun. Their separation is related to Yang Xun's inaction. Xiaofeng left, and she really gave up completely. I wonder if Yang Xun ever regretted it.
At the beginning, when Mother Yang gave Xiaofeng a look in front of two people for the first time, if he could stand in Xiaofeng's point of view and speak for Xiaofeng in front of her mother, her mother might not give Xiaofeng a second look. When Yang's mother was angry face to face because her son gave Xiaofeng money, if she was not only busy comforting her mother, she could also enlighten Xiaofeng who had been wronged, perhaps Xiaofeng would feel better. When Xiaofeng left Yang Xun's home alone for the first time, maybe Xiaofeng wouldn't have left later if Yang Xun could kindly send her to the station instead of her mother calling back and leaving Xiaofeng behind. People's hearts are covered with heat bit by bit and frozen bit by bit.
Xiaofeng left Yang Xun, which was despised by Yang Mu, but it was only a secondary factor. What really decided that they failed to reach the end was Yang Xun's inaction and unwillingness to act. The different endings of Xiaofeng and Wei Chunhong also remind us in reality: As a woman, if you want to marry a man, you must see if your husband will look down on you in the future. If there is no best, if there is, there is no need to give up at will We must also see if this person is responsible and willing to take action. As a man, of course, you should be responsible and do something for the people you love.