Emotional card point+consulting sentiment

Wang Di, who kept sharing for 287 days, read cards for 87 days, a total of 234 days, read the book "Meeting Unknown Oneself" 69-73.

Reading comprehension 1 Our brain processes 400 billion bits of information every second, but we can only realize 2000 bits of information, 400 billion bits and 2000 bits, so we will selectively see something and experience people and things in this world. As for how to choose to be influenced by various established concepts, beliefs and standard values instilled by individuals since childhood, it is completely different from person to person.

Everything is the vibration of energy, and the observer will influence the observed, so we create our own world.

If you do something repeatedly, from a physiological point of view, some nerve cells will establish a long-term and fixed connection. For example, if you are angry, depressed and miserable every day, then you connect the wires repeatedly every day and integrate that neural network, which becomes an emotional model of you.

When we have a certain emotional feeling at the body level or the brain level, our hypothalamus will immediately produce a chemical called ecology, which will be received by thousands of sensors around every cell in our body with blood. Over time, the sensor will have a specific appetite for an ecology and feel hungry, so if you are not angry for a long time, your cells will make you feel angry and want to lose your temper/

Through study, Ruo Ling's temper is much smaller and people are much calmer, but she and Zhiming are getting farther and farther apart, which is also my feeling.

/In the evening, my lover took care of the children and made him watch many cartoons. If I take care of the children in the future, the children will threaten me and his father will let him watch cartoons. Why don't I let him see it? But because of this, I can't communicate with my lover. I want to say that you ask him to watch less cartoons, and then my wife will say, then take care of the children.

Get up in the morning, the car number is limited today. Either I take the bus, or I drive early, or I change trains with my lover. I remember when he bought a new car, he proudly told me that you would drive this car in the future. But in fact, Xia Hao was very reluctant to change cars with him that day. I don't take the initiative, so forget it. I will get over it myself.

When washing the mat in the morning, put your lover's socks in the washing machine. I think this is my biggest card point. He doesn't like cleanliness, stinks all over, doesn't brush his teeth, doesn't take a bath, and sometimes doesn't even wash his face. It's unsanitary. I'll help him wash his socks. How about you get a pair from the cupboard yourself? Why do you ask me? Why should I wait on you? I'm in a hurry to go to work, too. Besides, I have to leave early today. At this point, I can't help but give him a few words. Won't you take it yourself?

My saved mood came out, and my card point came out.

I ran out in a hurry and ran away from home for fear of being late. I think learning takes up some time on the one hand, and it also makes me learn more stably on the other. The so-called stability is not thoroughly studied, but only by escaping or avoiding. I just don't dare to touch it for fear of injury.

/I was lying in bed with my child the night before yesterday. I tried to ask him as a consultant. How does it feel to buy a blind box? I feel happy. Can you say more? When do you feel happy, and how long can this happiness last? When I bought a house and put it in a blind box, my happiness ended. Then what else will you do to be happy? Sometimes I play games, sometimes I listen to songs, but now I'm not happy. Too much trouble.

Can you tell me more about your appearance? I have no confidence. Eyes too small, nose too flat, face too big. Mouth doesn't look good. When did you feel this way? Since the third grade of primary school. Who said anything about you before? Who cares? Does this classmate care? It seems that no one cares about my classmates, but my aunt says I am. He said I had a big face. Sometimes I really want to mourn her, but I'm afraid to dig up the scandal of her family. He will kill me. /

After talking about two topics without getting through, I gave up on myself. I'm thinking that my ability is limited. Can I talk to children like this? It is a fruitless consultation, but does the child also have new ideas? What about the new feeling?

Last night, she put on makeup and asked me to take a photo with polaroid. She was full of confidence.

Not satisfied with his appearance proves that he is demanding. I can get back together. Learn to pose, learn to take pictures, and happiness will come.