Before knowing psychologists, we may have many assumptions about psychologists, thinking that they should always face lunatics and think that they should know everything about human psychology. Sometimes we even let them guess. "Guess what I'm thinking now?" ……
But in fact, psychologists are not people who learn how to guess what's on your mind. But when you have psychological problems and mental abnormalities, help you find this abnormality, help you correct it, and help you treat it.
So when I first came into contact with a psychologist or counselor, I would find that he didn't like it, and others asked him to guess what others thought.
After we met psychologists and counselors. Our circle of friends may be more cautious.
Like those constellation tests and psychological tests that are often sent at ordinary times, in fact, many contents are fictional and fabricated. Most psychologists will basically dismiss such a test.
But sometimes you will meet some serious counselors who will tell you. What are the fallacies of this statement and what psychological effects are used? What's the difference with real psychology?
Yes, I am forced to popularize science once in a while. ...
Especially when we encounter information such as depression, schizophrenia and obsessive-compulsive disorder. We are familiar with this, but actually we don't know that he may go to science popularization more seriously to correct other people's misconceptions. Especially those false so-called suggestions. ...
In their words, those misleading are just smashing the brand of psychological counseling and psychotherapy. ...
When friends around them have psychological problems or mental problems, they will not take the initiative to help those patients, but will only remind them "I suggest you see a psychiatrist" ...
Perhaps it is hard for you to understand why psychologists should not help their friends better. How can you push your friends out when they have problems?
Because psychologists and counselors need to abide by their professional ethics, they can't have doctor-patient relationship or consultation relationship with people who need avoidance relationship, which will affect their consultation judgment, the effect of treatment/consultation ... and even lead to more serious problems. ...
However, they can help you find your psychological problems as soon as possible, which is very good.