According to the statistics of relevant departments, more than 30% of children with internet addiction are obsessed with online games, and they will still be unable to completely quit internet addiction after long-term treatment; Many primary school students have become small "internet addicts", spending 90% of their time on online games, becoming prisoners of the internet and obsessed with "Internet cafes". Some children are addicted to the internet, so they frequently skip classes and their test scores plummet. These examples in news reports shocked parents, and some parents even talked about the "Internet". Children's love of playing computer has become a "heart disease" for almost all parents of students.
In fact, our parents don't need to regard their children's love of playing computer as a scourge.
With the advent of the information age, computers have become a necessity for modern families, and surfing the Internet has increasingly become a "window" for people to understand the world.
In view of the problem that children love to play computer, the author thinks it should be sparse and not blocked.
Simple and rude "stop" will only be counterproductive, leading to children's rebellious psychology; As long as the guidance is correct, "sparse" may be the best choice.
So how to "sparse" children to use the network to acquire knowledge correctly without affecting their academic performance and physical and mental health? The author dares to talk about his own understanding, so please correct me.
First, we should pay attention to communication and guidance.
The reason why children love playing computer is nothing more than "curiosity".
Faced with the problem of children surfing the Internet, our parents should maintain a peaceful and equal attitude to communicate with their children, "reason with reason, and be emotional", strengthen children's correct understanding of the advantages and disadvantages of the Internet, actively guide children to correctly understand computers, regard computers as tools for study and life, rather than simple game toys, and guide children to borrow computers and networks to solve difficult problems encountered in learning and improve learning efficiency.
In addition, parents must not arbitrarily think that online games make children "play with things."
There are very few children who don't play online games now. It is particularly important to guide children to treat online games positively and correctly, instead of indulging in "fighting and killing" all day.
Teachers and parents can guide children to use the Internet to do some useful things, such as blogging.
Second, we must strengthen behavior management.
From a certain point of view, it is not the Internet that affects children, but the Internet environment and habits.
In order to prevent children from indulging in the internet, we should strictly control the time and frequency of children surfing the internet.
Parents can make reasonable arrangements for their children to surf the Internet in advance, allow their children to surf the Internet only after meeting the relevant conditions, and let them consciously get off the Internet at the specified time. Of course, parents need to do a good job of inspection and supervision, so as to cultivate their children's good habits and enhance their self-management ability.
Ningxia Beida Jade Bird believes that parents must implement "seamless management" for their children's surfing the Internet, strictly control the places where their children surf the Internet, absolutely prohibit their children from going to "Internet cafes" and other places, and guide their children to surf the Internet healthily in a "green" online environment such as school or family. Parents must master what their children want to play and do online.
Third, parents should accompany them warmly.
Lack of family warmth and parental care is often one of the important factors for children to indulge in the internet.
With the growth of children, especially after children enter adolescence and enter the second "weaning period" of life, active communication with parents seems to be less and less. At this time, the companionship of parents becomes more and more important.
We often find that children of this age are mostly chatting and looking for soul mates when surfing the Internet.
This reminds parents that they need to spend more time and patience to chat and play with their children.
If the child is willing, he or she can play online games with him or her and feel the happiness and relaxation of the game together; Of course, a better way is to take children to participate in some outdoor activities, let them "go out", get in touch with nature and society as much as possible, distract their attention from online games, and let them feel more exciting outside the "network".