Today we will discuss how a man found his mother at the age of 6 1 year 9 1 year. How did he go through the long road of finding his relatives?
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Chai found his relatives in 2008. After running around for more than ten years, he finally found his family. After receiving a phone call from the person in charge of Yixing's "Searching for Relatives", Chai found the mother of 9 1 year-old by comparing DNA. For Chai, although he found his mother at the age of 6 1, it must be very happy for him. After all, I am very happy to see my mother in my lifetime.
6 1 year-old son found 9 1 year-old mother.
In 1950s and 1960s, due to historical reasons, some families in the south of the Yangtze River sent their young children to Shandong, Northeast China and Inner Mongolia. Recently, Chai Mou of Handan, Hebei Province, finally met his mother in Yixing, Wuxi after years of searching for relatives. It was very lucky for him when his mother was 9 1 year old.
Grandma Xia, 9 1 year-old, knew that her son who had been lost for more than 60 years had been found and waited at the door early in the morning. When she finally saw her 6 1 year-old son, Grandma Xia couldn't help hugging her son and even holding hands with each other.
Four generations living under one roof may be the happiest moment in an old man's life.
Grandma Xia must be very happy to see her long-lost son at the age of 9/kloc-0. It is estimated that nothing makes people happier than seeing their son. Chai's son said that he would take his grandmother to Handan in the spring and spend more time with her when he has time.
After seeing his grandson, the old man was also very happy. After all, four generations living under one roof should be very happy, which is actually his luck.
Professor Li Meijin mentioned in a lecture that the baby was conceived by the mother in 10, so the fetus is already familiar with the mother's heartbeat, breathing and voice, so it is natural to have the closest relationship with the mother after birth.
If the mother leaves the child at this time, it will be difficult to establish the baby's attachment relationship, and there will be problems with the sense of security after growing up, which will have a negative impact on the formation of intimate relationships in the future.
And this mode will form a kind of cognition and habit in the brain, that is, the way he will get along with others in the future will follow the current "work mode."
The baby's attachment relationship was established with his mother before he was 3 years old. In this process, both sides will feel love, warmth and joy, and this emotional fetter is called "attachment relationship".