In school, it is certain that a new teacher will be the head teacher.
As a rural boarding school, the head teacher starts every Sunday with students returning to school, running every morning, studying by himself in the morning and evening, checking the bed, and finishing school on Friday afternoon, almost all the time.
Therefore, getting up early every day and jogging on the playground has gradually become my professional habit.
But because of this, I also saw a lot of things I shouldn't have seen. For example, I bumped into an older unmarried male teacher who came out of the married female teacher's room; For example, I ran into a married male teacher living on the fourth floor and occasionally walked out of a married female teacher's room living on the first floor. The female teacher's husband has been working in other places. Only during winter and summer vacations will we be together.
I was amazed, but I didn't know how to face it. How can the emotional world be so complicated?
Every time we meet, we are embarrassed, so we have to hide quickly and pretend not to see it. Later, I couldn't help talking to my best friend who taught in another school. Hearing this, she warned me not to tell anyone, or there would be trouble.
I also feel that I have no ability to face it. Say? The problem is just that every time the school wake-up bell rings, I slowly go downstairs.
What about the people I met? Irregular? Teachers' behavior, even if they deliberately befriend me or get information from me by innuendo, I either play dumb or ask three questions.
Even after that, there were rumors about their misbehavior at school, which I avoided.
Many years later, I am also glad that I kept my mouth shut. After all, no one can face the person he loves the most, just by his side and betray himself. We are all colleagues, no matter which side we stand on, we are offending people. We can't say for sure.
When encountering setbacks in life, it is best to be silent.
Really powerful people are often silent, especially when they encounter setbacks in life.
They are hidden in the ordinary, but they are not ordinary at all. Just like those heroes in martial arts novels, they are not only burdened with family feuds and national hatred, but also tolerant and open-minded, instead of bringing this resentment and anger to the surface.
No longer broke out in silence, but died out in silence. ? For truly powerful people, silence does not mean sinking, let alone compromising with fate, but accumulating strength in silence, practicing skills, and finally getting out of the haze.
After the start of the new semester, many parents are racking their brains to choose a good remedial class. My parents in the 18th-line small county where I live are not much better. It's just that the county seat is too small, and famous teachers have long been popular, such as Mr. Liu from other places who is good at teaching Olympic Mathematics.
Mr. Liu is a short man with a thin figure, but in just five years, he went from renting a private house to renting a commercial and residential building facing the street, and successfully obtained the business license of a registered training institution and became the principal of a popular training school.
Because of my work, I became friends with Teacher Liu. I often can't help praising him. He just shakes his head and says everything is forced.
Five years ago, Mr. Liu Ran started a training school for several years in partnership with others in the provincial capital. He declared bankruptcy because the partners disagreed. He wanted to find a place to make a comeback, so he took his family to this remote mountain city.
At first, faced with the situation that no one trusted him, he had to attend classes for free. Because the method is right and the students like it, he gradually has students. In the past five years, there have been almost no rest days except the Chinese New Year. After his fame is increasing day by day, Mr. Liu still works hard to achieve today's achievements.
From him, I see the characteristics of a successful person, forbearance, persistence and persistence day after day. If you can't calm yourself down and face setbacks, failures or successes with a silent attitude, you will lose your way if you are not careful.
When encountering unfair treatment, it is best to keep silent.
In the workplace, whether a person can be promoted or not has nothing to do with how strong a person's professional quality is. Most of the time, whose? Background? Thicker. Whose is it? Backing the mountain? Tougher, who is the lucky one who is promoted and reused.
Not long ago, the unit wanted to promote a cadre to the CPC. Everyone thinks that Xiao Deng, who has a master's degree, is the only candidate, practical and upright.
But the result is that he is over forty, often late for work and leave early, and his work ability is very average. To everyone's surprise, no one will talk about it again soon.
It's just that Xiao Deng's face will hang, and he took a few days off to adjust his mood. Colleague Lao Ye has worked in this unit for 30 years and is still a clerk. He has a different view on this.
Lao Ye chatted with Xiao Deng and invited me to accompany him. Lao ye told his story: if it was seniority, it should have been ranked long ago; If it is about work ability, he is also one of the best? Pen? But in the end, he just kept it? Stand still? , but never say a complaint.
Finally, Lao Ye said to Xiao Deng and me: You are still young. You should hold your breath in the face of unfair treatment, so as to sharpen yourself? . Lao Ye said that he devoted his life to the unit. As people of their time, it is a satisfaction to have a stable job until retirement.
But he still hopes that Xiao Deng and I can work hard to create a better life on a broader platform while we are young. After all, the more open and developed a region is, the more it will value a person's real talent and learning, and the less unfair treatment it will receive.