The duty of marriage is not to love each other for a long time, but to overcome each other's boredom.
In marriage, most broken feelings can't be redeemed by money.
Imagining marriage too beautifully is the root of dissatisfaction with married life.
Don't be trapped in the future promised by a man. The future is created by yourself, not given by him.
6. Never try to change each other in marriage, be kind to each other, accept each other and appreciate each other, so that marriage can remain fresh for a long time.
7. Treat marriage as everyone, and the ending is basically miserable. You still have friends, career, family, and marriage is just one goal of your long life.
8. Single people are always so conspicuous and pathetic, but no one cares about those who are married. In fact, they are really in pain.
9. Marriage seems to have a powerful reproductive function. It not only breeds life, but also breeds many troubles and other chores.
10. Only when women are economically independent and free can they be confident in a relationship. You know, the marriage law protects assets, not the weak.
1 1. It is immature to simply attribute the problem of marriage to one person's fault. Thinking too much about marriage is a mistake made by many women.
12. When we are in love, we add a filter when we look at each other, thinking that love can overcome everything in the future. After removing the filter screen after marriage, we found that any small problem was unbearable.
13. Sometimes I just want to do something for no reason. Want to see the sea, want to see the sunrise and sunset. But in fact, I will leave immediately only when I want to see you. This is probably why I think you are more important than anything else in my heart.
14. It is difficult for two people who live together to keep apart and calm. Friction generates heat, and they will be in a dry-hot relationship. So in marriage, it is difficult to be calm.
15. Marriage is a matter for adults, not for children to play house. Don't get married like an adult when you lack financial ability and your mind is immature. Because it is not a promise, it is a responsibility.
16. Marriage is the product of distrust of human love, just as law is the product of distrust of human morality. * * * Similarly, law and marriage are often cold. The difference is that the law is reasonable, but marriage is not.
17. Painful marriages are mostly based on the misunderstanding that only a small part of two people's lives can fit together temporarily, and it is taken for granted that two people's entire lives can be linked to each other for a lifetime.
18. Your most beautiful appearance is not that you are a husband and a teacher, that you are plain and obedient, that you are smart and frugal. It's that you can have a good life, but you still wear exquisite makeup and don't forget to work hard.
19. In many marriages, a truly harmonious, equal and balanced relationship hardly exists. There is always a subtle slavery, even the existence of the food chain. One side is always in a position of being enslaved, squeezed and eaten.
20. The French writer Morois said: "In a happy marriage, we should respect each other's tastes and hobbies, and think that two people should have the same thoughts and the same personality. This is the most absurd idea."
2 1. In marriage, people blame each other, but rarely reflect on the structure itself. Generally speaking, marriage seems to stimulate and amplify people's defects and weaknesses to the maximum extent, and a few noble qualities in human nature do not exist for marriage.
22. Husband and wife must synchronize. Not only in life and emotion, but also in cognition and ability. Only * * * grow up together and move forward step by step. No one falls down, no one loses, each has cheers, each has flowers and glory, and the direction is the same. This road to marriage will last as long as possible.
23. If we still think that marriage is our love fresh-keeping room, the source of security, the Petri dish of existence and the breeding ground of value, it is all wet. What it can promise us is only two people, a relationship and an uncertain life. The rest was a personal accident.