1, growth process
I was born in the late 1980s and grew up in an ordinary family. I had a happy childhood and many childhood playmates, so I was more outgoing and cheerful since I was a child, and I didn't feel lonely, but I strengthened my self-reliance ability.
After primary school, my parents were busy with their work, but they never slackened in urging and helping me in my studies, so that I always received a good family education and school education. It can be said that I have devoted their efforts to every step of my growth.
Especially my mother, in my opinion, she is a real strong woman, not only with a successful career, but also a good wife and mother in life. If I have to name one person I admire most, it's my mother.
Her strong and optimistic personality has always influenced and inspired me. In this way, I have been spent in applause and flowers until I graduated from junior high school. At that time, the road to growth was smooth. Middle school life is mainly about learning. Most middle school classmates are simple, but because they are in adolescence, there is not much communication between men and women.
Middle school life is busy and simple. I ended my middle school life and simple life in happiness. After the college entrance examination, a major turning point in my life, the people and things I met greatly broadened my horizons. I began to learn to evaluate myself and others with a relatively objective attitude, and to observe people and things in the world with my own eyes. Perhaps this is the so-called growth!
Since then, I have gradually felt like an adult-I feel that I have some responsibilities and naturally have to bear some in my life. Today, when I understand some life truths and look back on my growing experience, I find that the setbacks and pains I suffered in the past are not completely worthless, on the contrary, they have far-reaching effects.
2. The concept of life
A person's life should be a constant accumulation of happiness to form happiness. Secondly, choose a noble life concept. The concept of life is optional. Different life choices determine different lives. It is often said that suffering is the best university, and people who have achieved great things at all times and in all countries have come out of suffering.
In adversity, we will undergo all kinds of tests and tempering, and we will be tempered into steel, achieving our extraordinary will quality and ability. "We will work hard to gain what we can't." Adversity is not terrible, what is terrible is that you regard it as the end rather than the process.
Writing ideas
The process of life is always full of joy and sadness. I have been living for more than 20 years, looking back on my growth process. Through the study of mental health education and guidance courses for college students this semester, we have learned a lot of useful knowledge.
From the definition of psychology to how to improve oneself, how to adjust emotions, how to deal with setbacks and pressures, how to shape and cultivate personality and will quality, learning psychology to social psychology are all very comprehensive. In every growing process and life experience, every step of growing up is an opportunity for me to learn to face life positively. In self-analysis, we also learned to know ourselves and improve ourselves.