Xiao Li, who works outside the home, and his wife Xiao Liu have been married for ten years. They have two children, one is 10 and the other is 5 years old. They work in Ningbo and leave their children with their parents. Looks like an ordinary but sunny family. But since last year, his wife Xiao Liu was very angry and moved outside. It's useless for Xiao Li to persuade her to go home many times. Children miss their mother very much at home. What made Xiao Liu ignore the children?
My husband is fooling around and making my wife a mistress.
Liu: I have to run away from home. He's been fooling around. I have put up with him for ten years. How am I supposed to live this life? He not only fucked around by himself, but also made me accept another man and be someone else's lover. Am I such a casual stupid woman?
Xiao Li: Am I that stupid? Even if I had this idea, I wouldn't say it. She just doesn't like me talking to other members of the opposite sex. As long as she is a woman, she can't talk to me!
The husband gave 99 roses to others and one rose to his wife.
Liu: Last year, he went on a date with that woman, holding hands and hugging. On Valentine's Day, he also sent 99 roses to the woman and bought me a rose. I still don't know why he bought me flowers. The woman's husband found my contact information and called me, saying that he would call me if he ignored my own husband. I saw him whispering to that woman outside, and then he hit me.
Xiao Li: That woman lives next door, and my son went to play next door. I happened to meet her and said a few words, and then she swore and said a lot of ugly words before I started hitting people. Can't friends send flowers? Besides, I didn't know it was Valentine's Day. This thing is that she is unreasonable. If she can pass, she will leave. If she can't pass, my head will be big!
Husbands often flirt with others and don't support the elderly and children.
It can be seen that Xiao Li does have many emotional problems and made many mistakes. What he said in front of the mediator was never irrelevant. In fact, it's not once or twice that Xiao Li has been fooling around outside.
Xiao Liu: He used to molest other people's daughters and was beaten by their fathers. Finally, my father-in-law helped him lose thousands of dollars. You can ask the old man about this. My father-in-law can't lie. We put the children in their in-laws' house. Children eat with the money spent by their parents-in-law, and he seldom takes money back.
After the mediator asked Xiao Li's parents, he found that Xiao Li didn't often send money back, and parents were under great pressure to protect their two grandchildren. Whether Xiao Li sent roses to others or not, after learning about his "historical deeds", he knew the reason why his wife moved out. This husband is really worried, saying that they are all ordinary friends and changed to Bian Xiao. I don't believe it either.
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Mediator: It's your responsibility to raise children. You must get the money back, and you can't give all the pressure to your parents. Roses are for lovers. You can only give it to your wife, not to other women. Don't be so ambiguous when chatting with other women in the future. Talk to your wife more when you are free.
What two people need in life is mutual trust, but if one party is not sincere, it is difficult for them to get along. In a family, it is necessary to be honest with the other half so that children can live in a good environment.