Until one day, I saw "Peaceful Times" on TV, and Qin Zixiong, who was honest, cold and somewhat macho, rekindled my military complex, and he was persistent. I suddenly had an idea that made my ears hot and my heart beat: marry a soldier, and half of that green military uniform will belong to me. So there was the next blind date, and I married him in military uniform.
At the wedding, the humorous host asked me, "Bride, do you know what it means to marry a soldier?"
"dedication", I don't think about it.
I really didn't know at that time that the "dedication" that blurted out and won the applause was so dignified. Husband is not at home, and the usual days are hard to say. Once you encounter some special circumstances, you can only enjoy the bitter fruit alone.
As soon as the phone rang, her daughter rushed over and provoked her little eyes to shout angrily, "Pick up, pick up, it's dad, it's dad!" " Ask your daughter, "Do you miss your father?" She looked at me with tears in her eyes. "yes."
From time to time, I really feel what "dedication" means. When I was in love, my peers around me held many objections and asked me why I found a soldier, who was bitter and poor, and everything had to start from scratch. Occasionally ask yourself, why do you want to marry a soldier? Why do you choose happiness and sadness during the day, and no one enjoys it with you at night, and no one shares loneliness with you?
However, looking at my daughter who looks exactly like her father, my heart calmed down a lot, because she let me find the answer. A documentary about "98 Flood Control" was shown on TV. The daughter put down the toy and pointed to the PLA soldiers fighting on the dam: "Dad, Dad, Dad ... so many dads!" " Yes, rescue in the snowstorm, build a dam in the rainstorm and flood, and rescue in the disaster area after the earthquake ... Whenever the country and people are in danger, the people's soldiers in military uniforms always rush to the front regardless of safety. Perhaps influenced by my daughter, in my mind, every figure in military uniform seems to be a husband. At this time, there is too much emotion and satisfaction in my heart, content to be a silent' woman' behind the soldiers.
After the country improved the treatment of the army, my classmates and friends who were unfair to me at first began to envy my stable marriage and income. Half-jokingly, you were far-sighted and chose a "potential stock". But where can they experience the hardships under the dazzling aura of "military wife"? Maybe all this can only be understood between military wives.
Middle school students who have rarely contacted each other in recent years were surprised at my changes as soon as they met. How did the girl with weak writing and always needing to be taken care of become this decisive and calm little woman? I can only say that it is the sacred and special "occupation" of military wives that forged me.
At the beginning of marrying her husband, he was still in a grass-roots company, a girl with no worries about food and clothing, but faced with an empty rental house and no family. Thirty or forty days and nights to see your lover is only a short night; I dare not spend hundreds of dollars in my hand, because there are too many things waiting to be arranged at home ... The days are spent in waiting and expectation, but gradually, everything is getting better-the cycle of husband and wife meeting is shortened, and there is no need for pain anymore; There is enough money in the bag, so don't envy those beautiful clothes to wear on others. When the child grows up, he can chat with you. I finally understand what "the clouds open and the moon shines".
If there is reincarnation in the world, no matter how my sisters around me discourage me, I will still go to that place every day and marry a good man and a man in military uniform. Can't go wrong!
Well, it's just that my respectable parents will be implicated again!