Early in Alaska, a young couple got married and had children. His wife died in childbirth, leaving a child. He is busy living and looking after the house. He trained a dog because no one helped to look after the children. Dogs are smart and obedient, can take care of children, can bite bottles to feed children and can raise children.
One day, the master went out and asked him to take care of the children. He went to another village and couldn't come back that day because of the heavy snow. When he got home the next day, the dog immediately heard the sound and came out to see his master. He opened the door and saw blood everywhere. He looked up, there was blood on the bed and the child was gone. The dog is nearby, and its mouth is full of blood. After discovering this situation, the owner thought that the dog was sexually assaulted and ate the child. In a rage, he cut the dog's head with a knife and killed it. Then I suddenly heard the child's voice, saw him climb out from under the bed and picked him up. Although he had blood on him, he was not hurt. He's weird. I don't know what's going on. Look at the dog's body. There is no meat on his leg. There is a wolf next to him, still biting dog meat in his mouth. The dog saved the little master, but he was killed by the master by mistake. This is really the most amazing misunderstanding in the world.
Note: The misunderstanding is that people often don't understand. Irrational. Impatient. Lack of thinking. What happens when you don't understand each other and reflect on yourself in many ways and your feelings are extremely impulsive.
At the beginning of misunderstanding, I always only think about each other's mistakes; So the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper and get out of hand. If people misunderstand ignorant animals and puppies, there will still be such terrible and serious consequences. If there is misunderstanding between people, the consequences will be even more unimaginable.
2. Nails:
There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail in the fence in the backyard.
On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails.
Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, whenever possible.
When you control your temper, pull out a nail. Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.
Here it comes.
My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. These fences will never come back.
Go back. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say it, right
Sorry, that wound will last forever. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain.
Note: People often get hurt forever because of some persistent insistence. If we can all start from ourselves, let's start.
Treat others with tolerance, I believe you will receive many unexpected effects ... opening a window for others is to let yourself see a more complete day.
Empty.
3. Wait a minute:
Most of my colleagues are very excited because a new director who is said to be very capable has been sent to rectify the company. But day after day,
In the past, the new supervisor did nothing. He walks into the office politely every day and hides in it. It's rare to go out. Those bad guys are nervous to death now.
It is even more rampant. He is an able man there! He is very nice, and he is more gullible than the previous supervisor!
Four months later, just when I was really disappointed in the new director, the new director flew into a rage-all the bad guys were fired and the capable people were promoted. He started quickly and judged things accurately, and he was almost like a completely different person from the conservative one in April.
At the year-end dinner, the new director made a speech after three rounds of drinking: "I believe everyone must have a feeling about my performance during my new job and my subsequent boldness."
I don't understand. Now listen to a story and you will understand: "I have a friend who bought a house with a yard." As soon as he moved in, he put it in the yard. "
After a comprehensive rectification, all weeds and trees were cleared and new flowers were planted. One day, the original owner visited and asked in surprise, "What is the most precious plant?"
Where's Dan? "My friend just found out that he actually used peony as a grass shovel.
Later, he bought another house. Although the yard was more chaotic, he stayed where he was. Sure enough, plants that were thought to be miscellaneous trees in winter bloomed in spring.
Flowers; I thought spring was a weed, but summer turned into brocade; A small tree that hasn't moved for half a year turns red in autumn. It was not until late autumn that it really realized.
Which plants are useless, and vigorously eradicate them, so that all precious vegetation can be preserved. "Speaking of which, the supervisor raised his glass:" Let me propose a toast to all of you here.
Everyone, because if this office is a garden, you are all rare trees. Rare trees can't blossom and bear fruit all year round, only after a long time.
You can only recognize it by observation!
4. generosity:
This is the story of a soldier who came back from the Vietnam War. He called him from San Francisco.
But my son went on. "But there is one thing I want to tell you first. He was seriously injured in the Vietnam War and lost an arm and a foot. He can walk now. "
There is no way. I want to invite him back to live with us. "
"I'm sorry, son, but maybe we can help him find a place to live." The father went on to say, "Son? You don't know what you are talking about. Disabled people like him will bring a great burden to our lives. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let him ruin them like this. I suggest you go home first and forget about him. He will find his own sky. " Just then, the son hung up and his parents never heard from him again.
A few days later, the parents got a call from the San Francisco Police Department, telling them that their dear son had fallen to his death. The police think this is just a simple suicide case. So they flew to San Francisco heartbroken and led by the police to the morgue to identify their son's body.
That's their son, yes, but surprisingly, the son has only one arm and one leg.
The parents in the story are like most of us. It's easy to like people who look good or talk funny, but it's too difficult to like people who bring us inconvenience and unhappiness. We are always more willing to keep our distance from those who are not as healthy, beautiful and intelligent as us.
However, thank God, some people are not so cruel to us. They will love us without regrets, and they will always accept me no matter how bad we are.
Kid. Before you go to bed tonight, pray to God for strength to accept others, no matter who they are. Ask him to help us understand this.
People different from us.
There is a magical thing hidden in everyone's heart, called "
You will also understand that friendship is the most precious gift given by God! Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed. They listen to our inner words and share every compliment with us. Their hearts are always open to us. Tell your friends how much you care about them now.
Imagine: my friend, after you have finished watching it all the way; There must be deep feelings. Then, before you make a decision and judge others, please first think about whether this is a "misunderstanding", and then consider whether you must nail this "nail" and "start slowly" if possible.
Because when you forgive others, you are also forgiving yourself.
These are some stories that I think are better for psychological healing.
We can learn a lot from it.
To be a psychological counselor, the first thing is to know each other.
Start by caring and get to know each other better.
Until the other person is willing to tell you what he thinks.
There will always be troubles brought by various aspects in people's hearts.
Find the right direction and prescribe the right medicine.
Medicine, also known as speech therapy.
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As long as you put your heart into it, as long as you are willing to do it, you can certainly do it well.
I wish you success!