1。 In order to make friends, you must point out "attraction" in his book. S once said, let Cai Kangyong hold his mother. Why? Because you want to make new friends, you must attract others' attention. How to attract others' attention? For example, arrange something obvious on your body. So Xiao S jokingly asked Cai Kangyong to hold her mother. Although this is actually impossible, it is possible in ipartment. Chen Meijia took her boyfriend onto the stage. This boyfriend is actually a combination of Guan Gu and Lv Ziqiao. Who cares most about this?
Because Lv Ziqiao is her nephew and Guangu is her boyfriend, she is most familiar with these two people, and the combination of these two people is naturally what she is most interested in. Ceng Xiaoxian said that the friendship between two women is very simple, perhaps because of a bag, they can go shopping together, wear the same style together, and become best girlfriends together. The same personality and attitude are usually the basis of friendship. If two people both know some secret functions of a mobile phone, or both hate the same unfortunate star, then this may be the beginning of friendship.
2。 If you want to make friends, you must give another person a chance to have a good day and make others feel that they have helped others and have done it effortlessly. A good person is a good person and will make you feel good about yourself. This skill is a magical skill, which makes others willing to get along with you without showing signs. Meijia has a problem. Is she going to use this Epad to develop it? She was very entangled, so she asked Yo-Yo. After all, Youyou is the best person in the apartment! Of course, Youyou analyzed the possible shortcomings of Epad after Meijia. Because to accept a person, we should not only look at the advantages, but also look at the disadvantages. After analyzing for a long time, Meijia immediately felt that Ai Paide was actually very unreliable. Plus Guangu and Lv Ziqiao's actions, Meijia immediately broke the idea of continuing Ai Paide.
Later, Meijia told her what had happened, and Yo-Yo helped her again, so their friendship was deeper than others. In fact, this is not right, because they should be men. Youyou is Lv Ziqiao's menstruation, and this is Meijia's menstruation, so she is in the back, taking care of Meijia. The same is true in reality. Don't always be embarrassed to ask others to help you. Let others help you a little. Maybe this is the beginning of friendship.
3。 Everyone doesn't want to make friends with people who are too perfect. There is a strange phenomenon in friendship, that is, no one wants to make friends with perfect people. In the play, we can also see that among girls, although everyone likes Yifei, sometimes there is still a distance between them and Yifei, which is different from the situation between them. That's so sweet. Making friends is different from shopping. You will carefully choose a washing machine or diamond ring that feels perfect, but you don't want anyone to feel perfect. Be friends unless you are the maid in your life. So, if you want to make good friends, please don't make yourself look perfect and have some shortcomings. Let others show your place, so that others will be willing to make friends with you. Cai Kangyong also mentioned an important point in the book, saying that if you want to make friends, you must know two expressions.
These two words come from a psychology professor. One way is to tilt the head slightly, that is, the head should not be so straight and tilted. It is said that tilting the head is to expose the fragile and important carotid artery, which is in line with the principle of showing kindness to each other among animals. On the other hand, few people will notice this expression, which is a quick and slightly raised eyebrow expression. Experts say that we can observe anyone, and when he has a crush on another person, his eyebrows will definitely move. You can pay attention to observe whether this situation exists in your life. Friendship is not born. There must be a reason why two people become good friends with strangers.