How do psychological counselors design their own image?

Image design of psychological counselor. I used to think that image design was just an ordinary person, and then I changed my hairstyle, put on makeup, changed my clothes and took a photo, which was called image design.

I now find that image is not only appearance, but also mental outlook and personality characteristics, which can arouse each other's emotional and ideological activities. Including human appearance, behavior, expression, posture and so on.

The word design also means badges, signs, patterns, shapes, forms, methods, furnishings and so on. Probably through some means, with the help of visual impact and visual optimization, people's psychological aesthetic judgment is aroused.

I think of a very famous sculpture design. From one point of view, it is negative. Turn around slowly and change the angle. I see it. Yes.

Image design is a kind of creative thinking combined with artistic practice. Simply put, it is to turn your ideas and unique ideas into a work and a product.

This product has a core feature, which is beautiful. But aesthetics is not equal to beauty, which is probably based on a person's occupation, personality, age, body shape, face shape, skin color, hair quality and other comprehensive factors.

Design includes not only external forms, such as clothing and makeup, but also internal temperament, manners, conversation and living habits. Of course, this kind of creation can not be completed in a short time, but it also needs to be known and done.

The image design of consultants should pay attention to five words, and the first word is Fan. Be a scholar and make people feel dignified, credible and tasteful.

What does it mean to have a model? Probably with temperament, characteristics and quality. But also to convey a credible feeling, which reminds me of a sentence once said by Xue Zhaofeng.

He said that college students who graduated from prestigious schools will prepare a set of particularly expensive clothes and resume paper when applying for a job, and don't use 50 yuan if they can use 200 yuan's. Send a hint to others, I am worth the price.

Packaging with such good materials proves that I am worth it. Resumes, in particular, are worth staying in the hands of the interviewer 10 second.

The second key word is taste. Consultation occasions should be neat, comfortable and harmonious, giving people positive hints. For example, Freud put various statues in his clinic, giving people a sense of art, which is his personal style.

When placing items, we must think about what symbols and hints it gives people. Everyone or everything is expressing, and everything is calling. As for the name, who knows.

What do you think of when you see this thing? What do you think of? For a while, I couldn't understand why those people liked roots. In my hometown, tree roots are used for chopping wood.

Now that I have studied psychology, the discovery may be a projection. Just put some of my thoughts and imagination on this item. The most typical feature is the remains, which maintain people's emotions.

The third key word is clear. Language should be concise and clear. Speaking is probably something that a person needs to practice all his life. Especially after I learned hypnosis, I found that language is really amazing.

The last feeling was word association, which originated from Jung, a method of testing projection. Let the visitor imagine with vague words and then see what words he projects.

I like that day, that day, that day, and then let the visitor listen, say the word he heard, the first word that comes to mind, and then record it, observe the time and observe the changes.

This can restore important events and experiences in life. Because those profound experiences determine who he is, why he becomes like this, and why he lives like this.

In consultation, language needs to be clear, vague and definite, and it needs to be tried and applied.

The fourth key word is body language communication. The two words are easy and in line with expectations. When a person meets some professionals, he will have some psychological expectations, what he should look like and what standards he should have.

Psychological counselors should first relax and not be too nervous. Being nervous will make things worse. Nervousness is easy to get sick, which shows that his living environment is not very optimistic.

Psychological counselors must be in a relaxed and comfortable state. Move appropriately. What is decency? Probably in line with their own state, in line with visitors' expectations of psychological counselors.

The fifth keyword is accumulation. In the supervision class two days ago, the stress teacher said that she and Yue Xiaodong went abroad to study twice a year. It has reached the top level, and it takes time, energy and resources to study twice a year.

Because the consultant should have professional knowledge, life experience and foreign language level, it is easier to establish a consulting relationship.

I find that psychological counseling is sometimes like Degang Guo's cross talk. The threshold is in the door. After entering the door, you find there is still a ladder to heaven.

The present situation is not good, maybe there is no accumulation in the past, but whether tomorrow is bad depends on whether there is accumulation today. Accumulation is really important.

Ok, that's all for today. Thank you for your appreciation.