It is normal for many young people not to listen to their parents because of their love in the process of falling in love, but many people become unhappy because of these left-over problems after marriage. I think you should force them to become more motivated.
I don't know what you mean by not making progress. If he is a person who contributes to his family, that's fine, but he has no ambition. Just understand, and the requirements are not too high. After all, there are only a few excellent people in this world, unless he is a flat person and really needs to change. If you don't change, you will divorce him again.
I remember a female colleague whose husband had no job and lay flat at home every day, regardless of the children. She persisted for a long time. After a long time, she has to do housework, take care of the children and go to work alone. Later, she figured it out. She made it herself anyway. It doesn't matter whether you have a husband or not. Unexpectedly, after the divorce, the husband began to look for a job. People who have no money naturally have to find ways to support themselves.
My cousin is a person who is content with the status quo. His job is just a small clerk, with a monthly salary of only 5000+, and his wife's monthly salary is only 3000+. He leads a plain life, with his wife and children at school. As the saying goes, only mandarin ducks are admired, not immortals. His life is the envy of many people!
On the other hand, you are more and more unwilling. Maybe it's because you want to go up a storey still higher after a long life, and your life will be slightly better. That's true. Man struggles upwards, but if your husband is really complacent and can't change him, you can accept his life. If not, live the life you want separately from him. I hope my advice can help you. Thank you!