How to build a warm, harmonious and stable home?

First, the conditions for building a harmonious family

1. Adhering to democratic principles is an important foundation for creating a harmonious family. A harmonious family, no matter how much you have contributed to the family, the purpose of serving family members should not be forgotten, and the style of contacting family members should not be lost. We should always straighten out the relationship with other family members and fully respect their initiative. No matter what environment we are in and how many difficulties we face, our sense of democracy is indispensable and unity is unshakable. Every family member should accept good advice with an open mind, treat others equally, be willing to listen to various opinions, often carry out criticism and self-criticism, actively create a good democratic atmosphere, and lay a solid foundation for a harmonious family. Every family member should have the courage to share family responsibilities, agree on the issue of educating children, agree on the issue of supporting the elderly, and have no differences on the arrangement of money use.

2. Establishing equal interpersonal relationship is the fundamental guarantee to create a harmonious family. The harmony of interpersonal relationship is the cornerstone of family harmony. To establish a harmonious and equal family interpersonal relationship is to correctly handle the interpersonal relationship between yourself and your family and strive to live in a harmonious interpersonal relationship. Equality is the basis of achieving harmony. To create a harmonious family, we must firmly establish the concept of equality and establish equal interpersonal relationships. In family life, husband and wife should respect each other, love each other, trust each other, help each other, comfort each other, encourage each other, give each other, understand each other, be loyal to each other, and share joys and sorrows. Parents and children are equal, so they should understand each other, accept each other, learn from each other, care for each other, actively fulfill their obligations, and create a family atmosphere of respecting the elderly and caring for the young, unity and harmony, and helping others, so as to create a harmonious family environment. We should deal with other family relationships, such as brothers and sisters, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, young aunt, young aunt and so on. We should treat our family members with a peaceful attitude, live in harmony, understand each other and cooperate sincerely. More communication and less misunderstanding, more trust and less suspicion will make the family more warm and harmonious, and make every family member love the family, love life and work hard.

3. Carrying forward the spirit of benevolence is a powerful driving force to create a harmonious family. The distance that the world cares about is the farthest and the nearest. Only the communication and blending between heart and heart is the highest state of harmony. Love is conducive to narrowing the distance between people, dispelling the indifference between people and melting the gap between people. With love, life will be rich, with love, life will be wonderful, and it will enhance the soul, beautify the state of mind, and make generate show infinite upward pursuit and unprecedented creativity. In China, the spirit of benevolence is an important proposition and core spirit of the concept of harmonious culture and the basic spirit of traditional morality. This spirit is based on fully affirming people's position and sense of responsibility in the world. Family is linked by blood and marriage. To create a harmonious family, we should give full play to the special function of consanguineous marriage and pay attention to the education and edification of traditional culture of human relations and family ties. Tolerance is not only the expression of harmony, but also the basic premise to achieve harmony. To create a harmonious family, only by embracing and accepting family members with a broad mind and sowing the seeds of benevolence can we achieve the greatest harmony between people and between people's body and mind.