If I had the same experience as Su Mingyu, maybe I would resign, too.
Su Mingyu's family is the most important thing in her life. At the finale, she said it was her happiest year. Over the years, her heart has been short of family. Even if she is worth tens of millions, she is alone every year.
Even, she often needs to solve puzzles and sleep in the bathtub to relieve her inner insecurity.
People are always like this, and what they lack most will be what they want most.
For so many years, she has everything, material, spiritual and nothing. Maslow once put forward the theory of extroversion demand, which satisfied the material life, and people would long for spiritual satisfaction.
Starting a family is a higher-level demand of Mingyu. Of course, she has always had a family, but it doesn't make much difference. She also tries to treat Lao Meng as a family member, but after all, she is a family member, not a real blood relative, and can't make up for the lack of care.
This also makes her family values particularly heavy.
She once had a private paternity test to convince herself that she was not from the Su family and had no family.
But in fact, she thought that the shackles of blood relationship had faded long ago, but after Sue's death, the shackles became heavier and heavier.
So she couldn't let go and couldn't help but intervene in Su Daqiang's pension problem. She relented and let go of her second brother who beat her badly. Obviously, she was denounced by her eldest brother and searched. She turned around and asked for help for Xiaomi and his blood relationship.
Obviously, only the painful memories of the old house, she can't bear to be left behind. She bought it secretly, thinking about home. Once, because of the mistreatment of her family and her parents, she seemed to be kept in the dark and her heart was frozen. But after the happiest New Year, the warm sunshine flooded into her heart. Such psychological changes are undoubtedly happy.
This is her psychological change. Not many people can get away with it after being hurt by a family. But because she was eager to prove herself and escape from the barriers of the Su family, she worked hard. When she was a sophomore, she was completely out of the control of Sue's family and finally met the noble old Meng. With the support of Lao Meng and her own efforts, she has achieved financial freedom.
Unlike second sister-in-law Julie, she spends as much as she earns. On the contrary, she is a person with interpersonal skills, enough work experience and a mind to make money. Her money is enough for her to live a quiet and plain life, and resigning to take care of Su Daqiang will not cause any pressure on her life. It is precisely because she resigned from the job of a strong woman, lost her dizziness in the workplace, cared more for family happiness, and relied more on and loved by her father that the edges and corners of her body became softer and softer. Even Liu Qing showed that jade finally softened a lot.
Resignation is not all bad for her. She went back to her parents' house to look after her old father. At the same time, it filled her psychological deficiency and gave herself a long vacation. After so many years of dependence, she is too tired. Now that her father is around, she can finally have a good rest. Su Mingyu is an emotional person. Unlike all strong women, she is almost invincible and indifferent to coldness.
The only reason to support her to work in Midtown is because Midtown is her other home, where she has devoted all her efforts in the past ten years.
There are two most important families in this family, one is Liu Qing and the other is Lao Meng. But after all, this family is built on interests and power. Once the interests conflict, the trust of the family becomes the most taboo thing. So Lao Meng got rid of Liu Qing and didn't kill him, which made him unable to get along in the industry, but also made Mingyu not understand her master, which cast a shadow over her gratitude to Lao Meng.
For her, getting out in time is to keep her share of goodness to her master. If she doesn't get away as soon as possible, the mutual affection of the master will be gone when Lao Meng lays hands on him. She is a sentimental person and naturally doesn't want to go there. It may be best to take advantage of Su Daqiang's illness and follow in Liu Qing's footsteps. Only in this way can everyone be well. If I had the same experience as her, or if I were her, I would do the same.
There is a good saying: the purpose of work is for the better life of the family, not for the family. There is nothing wrong with Mingyu's resignation, returning to her family in time, leaving the company and saving both families.